Isn't that conflict is not resolved? It's because nobody's being validated.

Imagine your partner is drowning in a swimming pool and you start spitting facts.

Well you knew that there was no lifeguard on duty.

Fact. You knew you couldn't swim in 8 feet.

Fact.

Didn't you see the sign on the gate that said no swimming after five?

It's seven o'clock fact but they drown in and

sometimes in conflict we are focusing on facts rather than my partners drowning

in anger my's drowning in anger, my partner's drowning in sadness, my partner's drowning in fear.

We have to do something about that.

Reason that conflict is...

Eh! Hmm. reason that conflict is

All the women are like what is he talking about right now every woman that just heard that just now is like what is this supposed to be about it's you we're talking about you this is raggedy as hell like why would you start the show like this because this is

my entire last week.

So this is a you problem.

Don't put that on us.

I understood.

You understood.

I understood completely.

What did you get from that?

That it's better to understand and like have empathy for your partner when they're in a

moment when they're overwhelmed then proving yourself to be right or having to like I know that I'm

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