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Wire Talk with Karen Stubbs

498: Choosing Love This Christmas

Wire Talk with Karen Stubbs

Karen Stubbs

Christianity, Parenting, Parenting Advice, Kids & Family, Christian Parent, Religion & Spirituality, Faith, Motherhood

4.9936 Ratings

🗓️ 23 December 2025

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

As Christmas approaches, we are turning our focus to love this final week of Advent. In this episode, Karen and Emily unpack what it looks like to love like Jesus in everyday moments: choosing presence, serving quietly, pausing before reacting, and remembering that we love others because Christ first loved us. If the holidays have stretched your patience thin, we hope this conversation will help you refocus your heart on what truly matters!

Episode Recap:

  • We’re talking about love this week (6:05)
  • How do we respond to God’s love practically? (7:55)
  • Loving others looks like not being selfish (8:44)
  • Take an interest in others this Christmas (12:34)
  • Choose presence over perfection (15:54)
  • Speak life with your words (16:31)
  • Pause before you react (18:42)
  • Enjoy simple moments (20:20)
  • Serve quietly (21:15)
  • Focus on gratitude (22:42)


Scripture: Philippians 2:1-5 (NIV)
“Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus.”


Discussion Questions: 

  1. Why do you think loving others feels harder during the holidays?
  2. In what ways do you catch yourself trying to impress others rather than love them?
  3. Which part of Philippians 2:1–5 challenges you the most right now?
  4. What does “choosing presence over perfection” look like in your home?
  5. What is one thing you can do this week to respond with love instead of frustration?


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to Wire Talk. Today we are wrapping up our series on Advent, and I don't know about you,

0:05.4

but I have personally really enjoyed this time together. Today we're going to be talking about love

0:11.1

and who doesn't need love during the holidays, especially an extra dose of love. So let's get to it.

0:18.2

Welcome to Wire Talk, where we encourage and equip moms by answering practical

0:22.3

questions about motherhood. We want to help instill God's truth in your heart so you can experience

0:27.2

more joy and peace on your journey of motherhood. Are you ready for some truth? Let's dive in.

0:34.2

Well, hello everybody and welcome to Wiretalk. I'm Emily, your host, and with me, like always, is my mom. Hello, Mom. Hello, I see you got your glasses on today. I do have my glasses on today. It's been a great week, but it's been a long week. And my head, it just kind of hurts. And so I just feel like when I wear my glasses and I'm looking at iPads, sometimes it makes me like my eyes get tired. Oh, yeah. So I'm just wearing them for extra precaution. Makes total sense. I like them. Are those new? They are new. I lost my other glasses. So there you go. And then I went to go. Grayson actually had to get glasses. Grayson is my five-year-old.

1:12.3

And this past August, right after having Ellie, we realized that he needed glasses.

1:18.2

So he got new glasses, I got new glasses.

1:20.9

So it was all exciting.

1:22.3

Everybody got new glasses.

1:23.8

But thank you.

1:24.6

So I don't enjoy wearing them all the time.

1:27.3

But I'm wearing them today and it's good. And it's going to hopefully help my head not from starting to hurt. I'm sorry. That's okay, Mom. I hate headaches. Listen, I know, but also I have a little one. And so she didn't sleep great last night. So I'm just a little tired. Yeah. So you need some coffee? Do we need to pause and you go get you a cup of coffee?

2:02.3

No, because then sometimes I feel like when I drink coffee, it's like, and they don't want to hear that. They didn't want to hear that noise either. That's hilarious. So anyways, moving right along. Well, I don't know. This has been fun banter for me. It has been fun banter. But you look really pretty in your Christmas sparkled red. Well, I chose red today because, and red sparkles, because you know, sparkles are

2:05.5

better. But I just chose it for, it's today, December 23rd. It's our last of our Christmas

2:12.3

podcast talking about Advent. Yes. So, and we're going to be talking about love. So we've got Christmas.

2:18.8

We were talking about love.

2:19.9

So I need to wear red.

2:21.7

Okay, before we get started, I'm going to ask you a question.

2:25.3

What is something that you wish you would have done when all of us were still in the house?

2:32.4

Like, was there something that you wish you would have paused or, like, put more on your calendar or taking less out of the calendar? Like, what is something that you wish that you would have, like, just embraced a little bit more when we were all in the house? Ooh, you know, me. I'm not good with these questions. Someone said something. It was at your birthday.

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