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The Art of Manliness

#495: Wish You Had More Time? What You Really Want is More Memories

The Art of Manliness

The Art of Manliness

Society & Culture, Education, Philosophy

4.714.5K Ratings

🗓️ 1 April 2019

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

When you ask people about their schedules, they'll typically tell you they're very busy, and don't have enough time for sleep or for leisure activities. Yet when they're actually asked to track their time, it turns out that they work less and sleep more than they realize. My guest today studied and dug into this disparity. Her name is Laura Vanderkam and she's the author of several books on the personal use of time, including the focus of our discussion: Off the Clock: Feel Less Busy While Getting More Done. Today on the show, Laura and I discuss why there's a gap between how busy people think they are vs. how busy they actually are. We then unpack what the people who don't feel oppressed by the phantom of busyness do differently than those who do, why time goes by faster when you're older than it did when you were young, and how you can still slow down time as an adult. We talk about how what you really want are more memories, not more time, and how to find more adventure in your ordinary life. We end our conversation discussing how tracking your time can create a more memorable life, why you need to create open spaces in your schedule, and the one tactic you can begin doing this week to start making more of your time. Get the show notes at aom.is/offtheclock.

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0:00.0

Brett here, before we get to the show, quick heads up.

0:02.8

I have changed the theme music for the Art of Manliness podcast.

0:06.2

Now I've been wanting to do this for a few months,

0:07.7

a couple reasons why.

0:08.8

One reason we did a whole redesign of the Art of Manliness back in January,

0:12.4

where we went for like that Victorian feel to a more 1970s 80s vibe.

0:16.4

So I wanted some podcast music to fit that branding quote-unquote.

0:19.8

Also over the years I've gotten complaints about the current music,

0:22.0

those blaring horns, the baaaam, baaam, baaam, baaam.

0:25.6

I guess when you were wearing ear buds, it's not very pleasant.

0:27.8

Also just really harsh sounding.

0:29.1

So I've been wanting to change it for that reason as well.

0:31.2

So after months of listening to hundreds of tracks,

0:35.1

hours, just mind numbing surfing and looking through and listening to the stuff,

0:38.9

I found it.

0:39.8

The new Intro Music, the Art of Manliness podcast,

0:41.6

I was going for like something like Kojak,

0:44.3

Streets of San Francisco vibe, where it's smooth,

0:46.5

but has a driving edge.

0:47.8

This is it.

0:48.4

So without further ado,

0:50.2

World debut of the new AOM podcast intro music.

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