491 SelfWork: Friendships: How To Create and Keep Solid Connections
The SelfWork Podcast
Margaret Robinson Rutherford PhD
4.8 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 28 March 2026
⏱️ 41 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | This is self-work, and I'm Dr. Margaret Rutherford. |
| 0:10.3 | At self-work, we discuss psychological and emotional issues and what you can do about them, |
| 0:15.6 | whether that's learning self-acceptance, taking action, or seeking therapy or treatment. |
| 0:22.9 | Eight years ago, I extended the walls of my practice to reach those of you who might already be knowledgeable about middle |
| 0:27.1 | health treatment, but also to those of you who might say, you'd never darken the door of a therapist. |
| 0:33.0 | And yet, you are here. I'll answer your questions while I invite you to take a few minutes for your |
| 0:39.1 | own self-work. But when we feel loved and accepted, we naturally display behaviors that create |
| 0:47.6 | friendship, warm, openness, vulnerability, love, affection. It's about trying to work through some of the fears, some of the |
| 0:56.7 | baggage, some of the mistrust, the assumptions of rejection, because those are what make |
| 1:02.8 | us kind of anti-social. Welcome to this week's edition of self-work. Friendships are vital for your sense of well-being. |
| 1:13.0 | When you know that you have people that you can count on to be there for you, when you need them, |
| 1:17.5 | who you feel solidly connected with, that knowledge can offer a kind of grounding that's unshakable. |
| 1:23.4 | Today we're inviting Marissa Franco to come back on self-work again, to discuss how she discovered |
| 1:28.8 | this for herself, how friendships provided her with steady caring and acceptance, and how she |
| 1:34.1 | uses the science of attachment to help you create and keep friendships in your life. We all talk |
| 1:40.6 | about romantic love, but platonic love is just as important. |
| 1:45.7 | After all, you need a friend who knows where all the skeletons are buried, right? |
| 1:51.3 | So Dr. Franco, the author of the book Plotonic, |
| 1:54.4 | how the science of attachment can help you make and keep friends, |
| 1:57.5 | will share with you and me all of her best advice. It's very pragmatic. |
| 2:03.5 | But before I introduce you to Dr. Franco, here's a message from AG1 NextGen. |
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