#49: Stop Obsessing about the Could Haves + Should Haves

Heal Your Heartbreak

Break Up Bestie

Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement, Education

4.8 • 714 Ratings

🗓️ 23 February 2021

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

In today's solo episode I'm talking all about the could haves and should haves that we all experience post break up. Where you're up at night replaying every conversation you had with your ex trying to figure out what went wrong or obsessing about what you could have done differently so the break up didn't happen. The could haves and should haves are a very universal part of a break up but they can be so destructive. In this episode I talk about why we obsess on them, why it's so harmful to break up recovery, the different between shaming and learning, and how to stop yourself from obsessing about them too much.

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0:00.0	If you are looking for even more help and guidance on your breakup, I have a few different
0:04.2	options for you to take your healing to the next level. I have four different online courses
0:08.7	depending on what stage of the breakup that you're in from beginning all the way into moving
0:13.5	on after heartbreak, or you can bundle all of my courses together and use the code podcast
0:18.6	to get $25 off my course bundle.
0:21.8	I also have my 30-day no-contact challenge to help hold you accountable in going no
0:26.1	contact with your ex.
0:27.7	And we have our free Facebook group, Healing Hearts Club, where you can connect with other
0:31.4	people going through breakups all over the world.
0:34.2	To learn more about any of these resources, head to the show notes where you can learn more
0:38.2	about my courses, take the quiz to figure out which course is best for you, or join the Facebook
0:43.0	group. And don't forget to use the code podcast to get $25 off my course bundle.
0:53.9	Welcome to the heal your heartbreak podcast with your host, Breakup Bestie, aka me, Kendra.
1:01.1	Breakups are hard, but you don't have to do it alone.
1:04.5	Each week, I will be taking you through a different topic as it relates to breaking up, healing from heartbreak, growing in your single life,
1:12.5	dating and getting back into happier and healthier relationships.
1:17.0	The goal of this show is to provide support, hope, tips, and to remind you that above all,
1:24.2	this too shall pass.
1:30.4	Welcome to episode 49 of the heal your heartbreak podcast.
1:34.8	I can't believe we are coming up on 50 episodes since I started this last year.
1:40.5	Today's topic is something that I hear you guys dealing with a lot and I completely understand
1:47.4	it. I completely remember it. And this is the obsession that happens after a breakup with,
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