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Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney

49. How We're Living Apart Together (with Jonathan Mead)

Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney

Ev'Yan Whitney, Sexuality Doula®

Sex, Womenshealth, Wellness, Health & Fitness, Bodymindfulness, Education, Sexual, Sensuality, Queer, Nonbinary, Sexuality, Bipoc, Sexology, Liberation, Women, Somatic

4.7758 Ratings

🗓️ 29 April 2020

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.


Ev'Yan chats with her husband, Jonathan Mead (@jonathanmead), about their choice to intentionally live apart, and they both answer questions about how this has been working for them—how it's changed their sex lives, what their families think about it, and how they're handling all of this while going through a global pandemic.


For show notes of this episode, click here.


Find more about Ev'Yan Whitney and her work as a sexuality doula at evyanwhitney.com and on Instagram: @evyan.whitney.


CREDITS

Music: Otis MacDonald

Cover photo: Celeste Noche

Design: Bianca Ng



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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey everyone. I'm Evian Whitney, and this is the sexually liberated woman.

0:28.2

As a continuation of what was discussed in the last episode, I've brought my partner and husband, Jonathan Mead, onto the podcast today to talk a little bit more about our LAT relationship.

0:43.1

An LAT stands for living apart together, if you're unfamiliar.

0:49.2

Today we are discussing how transitioning this relationship has been for us both since we've been doing it

0:56.5

for almost three months. My, how time has flown and simultaneously dragged at the same time.

1:06.5

Both Jonathan and I got a lot of questions about our choice to live separately.

1:12.7

And many of those questions had to do with Jonathan.

1:16.7

Like, how does he feel about all of this?

1:19.7

Was he hurt when I brought up that I wanted to live apart?

1:22.9

Did he even want to do this?

1:26.0

Much of the last episode was focused on my story and the things I was processing as I came

1:31.9

to terms with making this decision.

1:34.1

So in this conversation, you'll get to hear his side of things.

1:38.7

You'll get to hear how he feels about living apart together and also some of the things

1:43.6

we've been experiencing and learning

1:45.5

about ourselves during this intentional time apart. Also, if you haven't listened to episode 48 yet,

1:54.7

definitely do so because a lot of what we talk about here references what was revealed in that episode. Now, this isn't the

2:05.0

first time my man's been on my podcast. He's been on to talk about how my sexual awakening

2:11.2

impacted him, which is episode four. He's been on to talk about masculine feminine polarity which is in episode five and honestly that

2:21.6

desperately needs an update because a lot of my thoughts and feelings on that topic have changed

2:27.9

since then oh and he's also been on to talk about our open relationship, which is episode 11.

2:36.9

So it's been a minute since he's been on.

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