489 - The Art of Human Connection: Brian Grazer on How to Let Curiosity Lead You Forward
The James Altucher Show
James Altucher
4.6 • 2.7K Ratings
🗓️ 17 September 2019
⏱️ 60 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | This isn't your average business podcast and he's not your average host. |
| 0:06.0 | This is the James Altiger Show on the Choose Yourself Network. |
| 0:12.0 | Today on the James Altiger Show. |
| 0:15.0 | When you look at someone in the eyes, it's permission to ask a question or to engage in a conversation. |
| 0:21.0 | So for the teacher to look in my eyes or a fellow classmate to look in my eyes and |
| 0:25.0 | in relation to anything to do with studies would be traumatic particularly if the teacher |
| 0:29.0 | because maybe she's going to call on you to come to the board and write the answer. |
| 0:33.0 | Yes exactly. And I was called many times to come to the board and it would just be embarrassing |
| 0:39.0 | and I'd see kids kind of snickering or laughing or and it was you know incredibly uncomfortable. |
| 0:46.0 | You know I couldn't read it all and so it caused a lot of shame. |
| 0:50.0 | You know you're some sitting in second, third and fourth grade and teachers are looking at me to answer a question |
| 0:57.0 | and I'm looking at my shoe or trying to find my way out of the class because I knew I didn't know the answer. |
| 1:04.0 | I knew I couldn't know the answer and it was incredibly embarrassing to me and hard. |
| 1:11.0 | Yeah. And so then what I found later in life is just the opposite work so much better. |
| 1:16.0 | I could really expand on my relationships by looking directly at people. |
| 1:21.0 | By doing the exact opposite look them right in the eyes make my soul available to them, my heart available to them |
| 1:28.0 | and theirs to me and that's when you get authentic stuff from people. |
| 1:33.0 | It's when we create that bridge that is honest and excited about meeting somebody. |
| 1:39.0 | Do you think these curiosity conversations that you write about in a curious mind |
| 1:44.0 | and also lead to so many of your movies? Obviously this was kind of an outgrowth of how you taught yourself to learn |
| 1:51.0 | which was so different than just reading and writing and so on. |
| 1:55.0 | Right. Well it is how I taught myself to learn. I mean I probably had classic auto-died debt in that sense. |
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