I would say, man, first off, sit down with your spouse.

That was something I did early on with Camille.

We sat down and a lot of times, and I was guilty of this in the beginning.

As a man, I just kind of created the vision.

I read the Bible said, create the vision and make it plain.

And I just thought my wife was supposed to support and follow that vision that I created without including her in that vision. I thought because

everything that I was doing in the vision was for her, but I didn't ask, what's your vision?

What is it that you want in life? What does, what does bliss look like for you? What does retirement

look like for you? And then once she was able to tell me and verbalize that to me, then I was

able to incorporate that into the vision.

Now everything, and it made it easy where she was able to support my vision because the

vision I had now was for the both of us.

It was for all of us.

If something is for the both of us, then it's for all of us.

Because now she's in a position now where she's able to be 100% for the children.

She's able to be 100% for me because. She's able to be 100% for me

because I'm working towards the vision that we both have.

So I think that's the big thing.

You start early on in your marriage.

Literally, man, it's a difference

when the two of y'all are working towards something

and both of y'all agree to that. read of that that Secret to Success Podcast, baby.

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