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Coaching for Leaders

488: Leadership Means You Go First, with Keith Ferrazzi

Coaching for Leaders

Dave Stachowiak

Management, Careers, Business

4.81.6K Ratings

🗓️ 31 August 2020

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

Keith Ferrazzi: Leading Without Authority

Keith Ferrazzi is the founder and CEO of Ferrazzi Greenlight, a management consulting and team coaching company that works with many of the world’s biggest corporations. A graduate of Harvard Business School, Keith rose to become the youngest CMO of a Fortune 500 company during his career at Deloitte, and later became CMO of Starwood Hotels.

Keith is a frequent contributor to Harvard Business Review, Forbes, and Fortune and the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Who’s Got Your Back* and Never Eat Alone*. He’s the author of the new book, Leading Without Authority: How the New Power of Co-Elevation Can Break Down Silos, Transform Teams, and Reinvent Collaboration*.

In this conversation, Keith and I discuss the importance of co-elevation in leadership. We also explore the six deadly sins that leaders should avoid — and discuss why it’s all on you, especially at the start.

Key Points

Six deadly excuses leaders should avoid:

  1. Ignorance: there’s no excuse to sit back and do nothing.
  2. Laziness: do not abdicate your responsibility to lead.
  3. Deference: beware hiding the truth just to defer to the organizational chart.
  4. Playing the victim: avoid running away or resigning to self-pity.
  5. Cowardice: if someone scares you, it’s probably an opportunity to grow.
  6. Indulgence: stop indulging resentments as they often hold back your career and limit personal and professional success.

Resentment leaves us blind and powerless; it’s been compared to drinking poison and hoping the other person will die.

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0:00.0

If you want to lead, you go first.

0:03.0

Today Keith Ferazzi shows us how and why to take the first step.

0:07.0

This is coaching for leaders, episode 488.

0:11.0

Produced by Innovate Learning, Maximizing Human Potential.

0:17.0

Greetings to you from Orange County, California.

0:23.0

This is coaching for leaders, and I'm your host, Dave Stahoviac.

0:27.0

Leaders aren't born, they're made,

0:30.0

and this weekly show helps you discover leadership wisdom

0:33.0

through insightful conversations.

0:35.5

Today a conversation with someone whose work I've been following

0:38.6

for a long time and really has made the invitation

0:41.5

for us to influence without authority and that means that we

0:45.3

need to go first as leaders. I'm so glad to welcome to the show today Keith Ferazzi. Keith is the

0:51.5

founder and CEO of Ferazzzzi Greenlight, a management consulting

0:55.3

and team coaching company that works with many of the world's biggest corporations.

1:00.2

A graduate of Harvard Business School, Keith Rose to become the youngest

1:03.6

CMO of a Fortune 500 company during his career at Deloitte, and later became

1:08.7

CMO of Starwood Hotels. He's a frequent contributor to the Harvard Business Review, Forbes and Fortune, and the New York Times best-selling author of Who's Got Your Back and Never Eat Alone.

1:20.0

He's the author of the new book, Leading Without Authority, how the new power of co-elevation can break down silos, transform teams, and reinvent collaboration.

1:31.0

Keith, so glad to welcome you to coaching for leaders.

1:33.0

Oh, Dave, thanks a lot. I'm looking forward to this conversation.

1:35.0

I think it's been what, about 20 years since Never Eat Alone came out and I read it and it's a book that has stuck with me all these years.

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