483 - Why Do We Lead With Fear?

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Sexuality, Self-improvement, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education

4.9 • 935 Ratings

🗓️ 11 June 2024

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Today, we're talking about fear, specifically how it can affect our relationships and what happens when we lead with fear. We're going to discuss fear and what it means to lead with it in a relationship, as well as some ways we can consciously move away from being led by fear to have happier, more fulfilling connections. If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of like-minded listeners at patreon.com/Multiamory. You can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, bonus episodes, and more! Quality lube is essential for good sexual experiences. Try our absolute favorite, Uberlube and get 10% off plus free shipping with promo code MULTIAMORYGet hair care that is completely customized to your hair and your life AND get 15% off at Prose.com/multiamory Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Because this could be
0:05.0	could be so deep that is within all of us,
0:09.0	this could be such a fantastic opportunity
0:12.0	to really supercharge your relationship, like having the willingness
0:17.2	to sit there and be vulnerable and having a partner who can hold that is huge.
0:22.2	This is how we heal. This is how we create corrective
0:26.0	experiences for ourselves that help to undo those patterns of fear, that help to
0:31.2	inject different messages about relationships and about love that can
0:36.7	help us undo some of the really silly messages that we picked up when we were children.
0:41.7	Your fears and fixing your fears
0:43.5	is not directly your partner's responsibility.
0:45.7	This is a collaboration.
0:46.7	This is a team effort.
0:47.8	And I will say that every time I've
0:50.6	been able to bring a fear to a partner
0:52.8	and it's been held and received, or maybe even
0:56.1	my partner has disclosed a similar fear,
0:58.6	I've always felt closer and safer on the other side of that.
1:03.0	Welcome to the multi-amory podcast.
1:07.0	I'm Jace.
1:08.0	I'm Emily.
1:09.0	And I'm Denaker.
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