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Shameless Sex

#482 From Lips to Tips: Mastering Sexy Communication & Pleasure Mapping

Shameless Sex

Amy Baldwin

Education, Sexuality, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.43K Ratings

🗓️ 21 April 2026

⏱️ 83 minutes

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Summary

Are You Speaking the Language of Love (and Desire) in the Bedroom? Get ready to revolutionize your relationships and intimacy with the latest episode of Shameless Sex! We're diving into two exclusive clips from Intimacy Rewired, a 6-week online bootcamp that's all about mastering the skills that make relationships easy. Joining us are expert educators Charlie Glickman and Sarah Tomchesson, who share their expertise on communication and pleasure literacy. Here's what you'll learn: * The secrets to communicating your needs and boundaries like a pro (without being a demanding diva or a silent sufferer) * How to negotiate with your partner like you're trying to score a deal at a market (but, you know, for love and intimacy) * The art of pleasure mapping and how to tune into your body's subtle cues (because pleasure is not just a prize, but a compass that guides you to what feels good) * How to drop into slowness and presence to reignite desire and intimacy (bye-bye, performance anxiety!) Charlie Glickman, a seasoned sex and relationship coach with over 30 years of experience, joins us to share his insights on making communication sexy. With a focus on sex-positivity, queer issues, and masculinity, Charlie will help you relate to your partner in a more meaningful way. You can find out more about Charlie at Make Sex Easy (http://makesexeasy.com). Sarah Tomchesson, a certified sex educator and intimacy coach, teaches us about the power of pleasure literacy and embodied practices. As the Marketing Director at Magic Wand and co-host of the Fuck Yeah podcast, Sarah brings her expertise to help you experience more sexual satisfaction and joy in your daily life. Check out her website at http://sarahtomchesson.com to learn more. By tuning in, you'll gain practical tips and insights to elevate your relationships and intimacy. You'll learn how to create a more authentic and fulfilling connection with your partner and yourself. So, get ready to shamelessly explore the world of sex and relationships! Learn more about the Intimacy Rewired 6-week online course here: https://www.intimacyrewired.com Follow Intimacy Rewired on IG @intimacy.rewired and instantly receive a free gift Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠h⁠ttps://kkcruise.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on IG ⁠@shamelesssexpodcast ⁠ Other links: Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://soakingwet.com⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off April's favorite vibrator - the Magic Wand Waterproof (and other sexy items) with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you’re struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started:⁠⁠⁠ https://learn.nocd.com/shameless⁠⁠

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Okay, y'all, can I talk about my closet intervention? I basically Marie condoed my entire wardrobe and

0:07.8

realized I had a lot of...

0:10.0

Mew...

0:12.0

Same. Same over here. I decided this spring I'm only keeping things that I actually reach for.

0:18.0

Quality over quantity, baby.

0:20.0

Mm-hmm. Which is exactly why Quince has become my obsession. We're talking 100% European

0:27.1

linen, organic cotton, super soft denim, starting around $50. Did you say 50? Yeah, 50. Yeah, 50. I had to double

0:37.1

check that price.

0:38.4

Their linen tops feel genuinely elevated.

0:41.4

Like, did she spend a fortune on that?

0:43.8

Elevated.

0:44.7

Spoiler alert, she did not.

0:46.7

And their leather bags, hand-woven Italian leather that looks wildly expensive.

0:53.6

I got so many compliments. Well, Amy, speaking of your leather bag,

0:58.4

I just bought my mom for her birthday, the same one from Quince, because it's black, woven,

1:03.5

Italian leather. It's so cute. She loves it, loves it, because Quince cuts out the middleman and works

1:09.6

directly with ethical factories, so you're paying out the middleman and works directly with ethical factories so you're

1:12.0

paying for the good stuff and not some brands marketing budget so you're not overpriced anymore, Amy.

1:18.9

It's honestly the only place I'm shopping for spring. Gifts, basics, everything. Refresh your

1:25.2

spring wardrobe with quince. Go to quince.com slash shameless for free shipping

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and 365 day returns. And now available in Canada too. Go to QI-N-C-E.com slash shameless for free shipping

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and 365 day returns. That's quince.com slash shameless.

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