Welcome to Ghost of a Podcast. I'm your host Jessica Lignato. I'm an astrologer, psychic

medium, and animal communicator, and I'm going to give you your weekly horoscope and no

bullshit, mystical advice, for living your very best life.

Welcome back to Ghost of a Podcast. I have a question titled, Why does the wrong thing

feel so right? Last weekend I went out to the bars and I came home with a guy that I've

been attracted to for a while. It was the most fun I've had with someone in a really

long time and neither of us have stopped talking about it. But he is in a non-monogamous relationship

with one of my close friends and she made it clear that she didn't want him sleeping

with her friends. I wanted it to stay a drunk mistake but we have to begin to later.

Telling her feels selfish but so does not tell her. He doesn't want her to know but he

wants to keep hooking up. I want to forget it happened and move on without causing more

damage. But I feel so compelled to him and we've had such intense chemistry ever since

we've met. I'm weak when it comes to my compulsions and I know that when the opportunity arises

I won't be able to say no. This isn't like me, being a good friend is so important to

me. Why can't I stop myself from making the choices that directly conflict my morals?

Should I tell her? Does this mean I'm not who I thought I was? How do I say no to things

that feel so good? Love your podcast and all the work that you do love see. So see has

shared her birth info but asked to keep it private which I will respect. Let's start with this.

I have a massive pet peeve. Okay, it is a massive pet peeve. When people say I am non-monogamous

when what it's really saying is I am cheating. Let me let me be clear. Okay, if you're a

monogamous you have an agreement with someone to only have sex and only catch fields for them

and them alone. That's monogamy. If you are polyamorous with someone then there is an agreement

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