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Alrighty. I freaking love this channel.

So we had done something called The Daily Grind.

31 days to overhaul your life.

All the videos are still there.

You can also find them on my Instagram page on Anchi Belmar vlogs.

But let's go through kind of a mini version of that for the next three days together leading into my three day VIP, you know, I'm going to go through exactly what the heck it is that I've done to build my business. We're going to talk about social media. We're going to talk about all the things. We're going to debunk the word influencer and ultimately how you can live

your dream life and answering all of your questions. But today what I wanted to do was kind of create a space for everybody to be able to kind of be a fly on the wall and hang out in here. And if you're having a good time, then join the free group. There's no, I will not bother you. There's no strings attached. It's not some weird thing. You can get in there. You can figure out out what I've done. I will share all of my secrets in that group and just in like a free private

setting. So let not some weird thing. You can get in there. You can figure out what I've done. I will share all of my secrets in that group. And just in like a free private setting. So let's jump into today. I figured what I would do is take from this long video that I did. I did like a long sit down Q&A and just mashed through as many questions as I could that you guys had asked about business, social media, how to grow, how to build the life of your dreams. And I grabbed three of the most common questions. One of the biggest questions I got was, what if I'm scared? You know, what if people are going to judge me? What if people say no? I can't find the confidence to post or to grow, and I just want to do this. Here are my top three tips. If you are scared, if you have fears, let's number one figure out what is greater than the fears.

What is greater than the fears? are my top three tips. If you are scared, if you have fears, let's number one figure out

what is greater than the fears. What is greater than the fears, you cannot be scared and

excited at the same time. You cannot be unsure or fearful or scared of rejection at the same

time as you are insanely grateful. And by the way, if you're not grateful now, we can get into

that mindset where you're grateful for the future that is coming to you. And this is not wonky. This is not some weird woo-woo stuff. It will actually help you abolish the fears and be like, you know what? I want that dream life and I'm freaking going after it. So number one, what is the future that you want to live? And it can be the biggest, craziest pie in the sky goal. You could want to live on an island. It can be

whatever you want. It can be that you want to take your dream vacation with your family and your

kids and surprise them and go to Disney World or wherever the heck it is that you want to go. For me,

I had set a couple of different milestone goals. So one of my first goals in my own business

was that I wanted to take

Andre, my husband, on a trip to Disney World with the money that I had earned in my business. That was my first goal. I wanted to do that. So I set that goal for myself. And that became my North Star. It wasn't some altruistic, like, I'm going to be the next mother, Teresa, and help a million people like that. a lot of people think that when they set their Y, you why you know if you don't have a why it doesn't do anything and you need that to grow yes you need a why but my why was really freaking realistic it was something that I wanted so what is it that you want do you want to be able to buy your kid a bike for Christmas that they've been looking for do you want and you know, I would say set a goal for one year,

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