#478 The Art of Giving and Receiving Great Head

Shameless Sex

Amy Baldwin

Education, Sexuality, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.4 • 3K Ratings

🗓️ 24 March 2026

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

Can You Give a Mind-Blowing Blowjob? Or can you receive one? Let's get real, folks - blowjobs can be a total game-changer in the bedroom, but they can also be, well, a bit of a mystery. In this episode, we're diving headfirst (pun intended) into the world of sucking cock, sharing our own stories, and spilling the tea on what really makes a blowjob unforgettable. Here's what you'll learn: * The top tools and techniques for givers (yes, even if you're not a fan of giving blowjobs - we've got tips to help you drop in and enjoy) * How to communicate with your partner to take your blowjobs to the next level * The #1 way to get more of what you want as a receiver (hint: it involves talking about it) * How to overcome common challenges and make receiving a blowjob a truly pleasurable experience * Our own favorite techniques, from physical tricks to words of affirmation and setting the scene * What we've learned from our own experiences and guests to bring you Blowjob 2.0 skills We'll also be plugging some of our favorite resources for more education, including our website, Somatica online classes, our book, and ErikaLust.com. And, spoiler alert, one of us shares a sneak peek into a chapter from our book that'll give you even more blowjob inspiration. Tune in for a fun, honest, and informative conversation that'll leave you feeling empowered and excited to try new things in the bedroom. And trust us, you won't want to miss our teaser for next week's episode... let's just say it's going to be a wild ride. Come to our October 2026th retreats - one for women and one for couples! Learn more and reserve your spot here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat⁠⁠⁠ Join us on the Killing Kittens cruise in the Mediterranean in June 2026: ⁠⁠h⁠ttps://kkcruise.com⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow us (even though we are shadow-banned) on IG: Go to Amy's profile ⁠@amyshamelesssex ⁠=> find a post with @shamelesssexpodcast to follow and see contests Other links: Get into turbo drive with Drive Boost from VB.Health, and use code SHAMELESS to get 10% off at ⁠⁠vb.health⁠⁠ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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0:00.0	Everyone is overthinking this about being good enough to do it or to receive it or is it the right time.
0:07.3	Am I making you happy?
0:08.6	Are you making me happy?
0:10.2	And there are so many other ways to make this just fun and playful.
0:13.9	And that's why April and I talk about sex as play.
0:18.7	I'm Amy.
0:19.8	I'm April.
0:20.9	Certified sex educators, sex experts of the year, and best-selling authors.
0:25.7	And we're on a mission to help you have more spicy, connected, and amazing, shameless sex.
0:31.7	Welcome to the shameless sex revolution.
0:40.2	To learn more, Sex Revolution. We're so close. We're making sex and relationships shameless.
0:43.3	To learn more, go to shamelesssex.com. And for 15% off some of our favorite sex toys, use code shameless sex at pure pleasure shop.com.
0:50.8	You were listening to a pleasure podcast.
0:54.1	For more from our sex podcast collective, visit pleasurepodcasts.com.
0:59.3	This episode is with yours truly Amy and April. And guess what? It's just us the whole time.
1:07.2	Is it really? It is. Just us. Yeah, I know. Flying by the seat of our blowjob.
1:12.2	If you've been an avid, shameless sex listener, you would know our history with blowjobs. But then we also have the good stuff, like the funny stuff. That's what I'm saying. We got all of it. Yeah. The slurpy stick shift. That's a fun one. So I have seen you suck a dildo on stage.
1:28.1	It's a rainbow,
1:28.8	a rainbow dildo.
1:29.8	And you can learn more about slurpy stick shift in this intro. There is trauma that can come up when you're giving head. Yeah. You can kind of sit back and think about, oh my God, shit. Is this like something that i want to do i don't like
1:45.3	the taste of skin what do i do well sex education it wasn't a big part of the sex toy industry for
1:51.3	geons before it was it was very dildos that were money money it was money dildos that weren't good for your
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