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478: Mama Gena: Why Successful Women Lose Their Feminine Fire (And How to Get It Back)

the bossbabe podcast

Natalie Ellis

Entrepreneurship, Education, Marketing, Self-improvement, Business

4.9 • 2.6K Ratings

🗓️ 5 September 2025

⏱️ 65 minutes

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Summary

Why is it that so many ambitious, successful women find themselves feeling disconnected from their feminine energy, and even struggling in their relationships because of it?In this powerful episode, Mama Gena (author of Pussy: A Reclamation and founder of The School of Womanly Arts) joins Natalie to unpack the conditioning that teaches women to “man up” in order to succeed + shares how that very conditioning often leaves us burnt out, resentful, and craving deeper intimacy. You’ll learn why polarity matters in relationships, how to reconnect with your sensuality and pleasure without losing your ambition, and the simple daily practices that can reignite your feminine fire. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing it all but still missing something, this conversation will show you a whole new way forward. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Why high-achieving women often lose touch with their feminine fire02:22 - How childhood conditioning and cultural myths shape our relationships06:32 - The real reason polarity breaks down in modern partnerships11:12 - Why success at work can create challenges in love (and what to do about it)17:45 - A story of choosing love over power + what it taught Mama Gena26:07 - Practices to release resentment and reconnect with your body33:40 - How to turn rage into pleasure (and why it changes everything)41:00 - Simple rituals to bring more turn-on, joy, and ease into your day47:49 - The power of sisterhood in keeping your feminine energy alive55:00 - Redefining value: why money isn’t the only measure of success RESOURCES + LINKSDownload Mama Gena’s Ultimate Guide to Getting What You Want For Free Right Here. Click Here To Join Mama Gena For A Free 4-Day Live Event To Awaken Your Emotional Genius, Uncork Your Stuckness, And Remember The Power Of Your Truth, Your Tears, And Your Turn-On. Click Here To Get Mama Gena’s Course House Of Turn On: An 8-Week Initiation Into The Deepest Power You’ve Never Been Taught To Trust - Your Pleasure. Sign Up For Our Free Weekly Newsletter & Get Insights From Natalie Every Single Week On All Things Strategy, Motherhood, Business Growth + More. Drop Us A Review On The Podcast + Send Us A Screenshot & We’ll Send You Natalie’s 7-Figure Operating System Completely FREE (value $1,997)

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0:00.0

Mama Gina, welcome to the podcast.

0:10.6

So good to be here, Natalie.

0:12.4

I am so excited about this.

0:13.9

I first discovered your work, I think it was seven years ago.

0:18.1

And I remember the first...

0:20.2

What was the moment?

1:01.3

Was it reading Pussy Reclamation? It was. Boom, boom, boom. What's so funny is that I'd just been on a planned medicine retreat. I was like in the thick of just figuring out all my things. And I came out of it just like a whirlwind and I got drawn to this book. But me and Stephen were going away for the weekend with our friends and I took this book and I didn't put it down. My head was in it the whole time. And his friends were like, what is that? That you're reading. And I couldn't put it down all weekend. And it was amazing. The best introduction to your work ever. I am so, so, so, so glad. It's exactly what I wanted to do be. It's about. I wanted to be like, like ingest that whole chapter and verse of feminine,

1:07.8

sensual, erotic education that gets left out for all girls and women. So I'm so glad that I hit you. And also that really open time right after a plant medicine journey, potent. Okay. So you and I've been in dialogue for seven years.

1:16.0

Without you knowing it. So I'm a big fan of your work. And I'm so glad that you're here because I feel like you are the perfect woman to speak to my audience where they're at. So giving you a little TLDR of where most of the

1:30.7

listeners right now are at very high achieving women. Yeah. Most of the time, the breadwinners of their

1:36.7

family and really, really struggling to create that polarity in their relationships. Some of them

1:42.3

even listening to this are like, Natalie, what is

1:44.3

polarity? Oh, that's right. Can we dive into that? Why does this happen? And is there a fix?

1:49.4

Okay, first of all, when you were a little girl, did you ever hear of somebody called Cinderella?

1:53.9

Yes. Sleeping Beauty, Snow White? I didn't heard about those people too. And I had to tell you,

1:58.9

Natalie, what I tried so hard when I was raising my daughter

2:02.3

Maggie, and she's 26 now. I tried so hard to keep her away. I thought if I just keep her from Disney,

2:08.9

she won't like get into that whole mythology of thinking someday a prince is going to come and awaken

2:15.9

her and save her and support her and lead

2:18.9

her to her dreams and provide everything that she needs or wants. But of course it didn't work

2:24.6

because whenever she'd go for a sleepover, what would they watch and the next Disney movie? And

2:29.0

so we are steeped, like almost like brood in this construct that a prince will come to take us to our

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