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Yes. Take off your clothes and get on the scale. Oh, God. So we was like, I was talking to

that someone lately about that. That's people do that. Or that was like the rumor that they

did that in sororities was like, wait, you. What are you allowed to say what you did for sorority

initiation? Because I'm not a part of a sorority. I haven't been. So this is a good example of me.

So we had a sorority night that you have like initiation night and everyone is in there

in the room. You're in the sorority room. And basically the way that they, this is actually

like kind of like what they do in cults where they get you to share secrets or they get you to

have a shared traumatic experience or a shared thing that you're doing that's bad or about

if you've received as evil or whatever. This was a double shameful. Yes. Exactly. So for sororities,

the shared thing was sharing your deepest secret together. It was called, I forget what it was called.

Did how do you like what? There's 50 girls in there. And so they were like, okay, we're

going to share our deepest secret. I literally snuck out the door. I was like, I've got to go

to the bathroom and I left and I have no idea what else happened. That was like, whoa. No, no, no, no,

I could not do it even at that consciousness level that I was a group of people together

with false intimacy, creating false intimacy, false intimacy, by sharing their deepest secrets.

And then it just becomes this like trauma fast where it's like trauma comparison. Oh, they've

had it worse than me. I had it worse than her. And it's just very unnatural. And I was like,

I cannot do this. And they also within fraternities do really weird stuff for their initiation process.

And like, it's kind of odd the way that I think about it now because I'm like, what odd concepts?

Where you're paying to be a part of a secret group society that does these initiatory things. Like

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