471 - Possessiveness Might Help Your Non-Monogamous Relationship

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🗓️ 16 April 2024

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Today, we're talking about feeling possessive over a partner, the psychology and science behind it, and how even when non-monogamous, possessive feelings can still arise and create challenges for us. We'll even be discussing some times when a little bit of possessiveness can be a good thing! If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of like-minded listeners at patreon.com/Multiamory. You can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, bonus episodes, and more! Treat yourself to some stories to turn you on or help you drift off to sleep with an extended 30-day free trial at DipseaStories.com/multiQuality lube is essential for good sexual experiences. Try our absolute favorite, Uberlube and get 10% off plus free shipping with promo code MULTIAMORYGet a personalized original song and put it on Spotify for free at our special link Songfinch.com/multiamory Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	This is one, some of these behaviors I've really seen them go both ways,
0:06.4	specifically in a non-monogamous context.
0:08.8	So I think about hugging, kissing, hand-holding, public displays of affection, which for some people, let's say they're in the
0:16.1	room with multiple partners, like they have two partners there at the birthday party, and for some
0:21.5	people that's totally fine and it's very comfortable and for other
0:26.0	people if they're noticing their partner is like really laying on the
0:30.4	affection with one partner and not with them, then that can raise some question marks of,
0:35.0	well that's weird, or if one partner's really hanging on them as sort of a means of I really need to,
0:40.7	I feel insecure because I have my metamore here and so I really need to make sure that everyone knows that we're in a relationship or that you belong to me to a certain regard that that can be weird too. So it's tricky.
0:52.0	Welcome to the Mult-amory podcast.
0:55.0	I'm Jace.
0:57.0	I'm Emily.
0:58.0	And I'm Dedaker.
0:59.0	We believe in looking to the future of relationships,
1:02.0	not maintaining the status quo of the past.
1:05.0	Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships
1:11.0	differently, we see you and we're here for you.
1:15.0	Fongs I know I did.
1:20.0	Force made a form of my On this episode of the multi-ammery podcast we're diving into the topic.
1:29.6	On this episode of the multi-ammery podcast, we're diving into the tricky topic of possessiveness in
1:35.8	relationships. Even if you're practicing some form of non-monogamy, feelings of
1:41.4	possessiveness can still arise and create challenges.
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