#47 - Your Partner Is Not Broken

You Are Not Broken

Kelly Casperson, MD

Medicine, Health & Fitness

5 • 743 Ratings

🗓️ 22 November 2020

⏱️ 21 minutes

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This one is for the dudes! And the women who love the dudes! Truthfully, it works for same sex couples too. Let's talk about changing your partner - ha! You can't!!! Starting from a place of appreciation. Avoid assumptions. Erectile Dysfunction Loving what is. Intimacy avoidance. Avoiding being critical. Discover what makes your partner feel loved. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Welcome to You Are Not Broken, the only podcast that combines science, medicine, and psychology,
0:11.9	to re-educate your brain and help you live your best love life. And I'm your host, Ford certified
0:17.6	female urologist, Dr. Casperson.
0:27.1	Hey ladies, Kelly here talking to you today about your partner not being broken.
0:32.9	I don't put this disclaimer in enough. It's kind of universal. None of this is individual medical advice. Smart people know that. I always hate that super serious doctor disclaimer, but like I'm not your
0:38.9	individual doctor. But we're not talking too much about medicine today. We're talking about your
0:44.3	partner not being broken, which I think is fair, like 50 episodes into this podcast that we should
0:49.6	talk about your partner not being broken. Where this brilliant idea came from was I was giving a
0:54.8	conference, I was giving a lecture to, and the conference was physicians and physicians who are
0:59.7	life coaches. So it was a super cool niche. And then my talk within that group was on sex,
1:06.1	because there are so many topics within sex and around sex that have to do with our thoughts and our
1:11.4	limiting beliefs. So it was an awesome talk. I'm sure some of you guys were there. So the,
1:17.4	and we just finished my very first master class, a eight week long master class, where we did a lot
1:23.2	of coaching concepts and thought work and our limiting beliefs. One of our limiting beliefs we have a lot is about our partners and the beliefs we
1:31.0	put on our partners or the assumptions we make about our partners about what they might
1:35.5	be thinking about sex.
1:36.8	So I give my lecture to these doctors who are coaches, which is amazing.
1:41.4	And basically at the end of my lecture, I was kind of talking about how we kind of need to take it easy on the guys.
1:48.6	Stereotypically in heterosexual relationship, and I'm talking to women typically on this podcast, but I love that couples listen to this podcast too.
1:55.8	So where I was going was taking it easy on our male partners.
2:00.3	We kind of have this assumption that
2:02.0	they know all the rules of sex or they know more than us about sex. And they don't. They got
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