There's lots of times where I can feel like a ton of

compersion when I see her or a partner having pleasure like that is such a turn on

I love to see it it's so sexy tell me all

the details but then when we started thinking about doing other stuff and going on

dates without each other again this feels like a very generous love and I want us to have like new novel

experiences without each other. That sounds like a lot of fun, but really what I

think I actually wanted is to have like new novel experiences with her. I want to have

connective experiences with my person but she wants to have other experiences

maybe with other people, not me being there and I was like oh no we're not on the same wavelength and all of a

sudden like we're seeing this differently and now we have to compromise or

figure it out or ring it in a little bit and it's an uncomfortable conversation

negotiating that sometimes.

So there was like the we're honeymooning, we're on the same page about everything.

No we're not.

Fuck. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah or not. Fuck.

Yeah.

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