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Ghost of a Podcast: Astrology & Advice with Jessica Lanyadoo

467: Participating In My Own Harm

Ghost of a Podcast: Astrology & Advice with Jessica Lanyadoo

Jessica Lanyadoo

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.8 โ€ข 4.2K Ratings

๐Ÿ—“๏ธ 25 September 2024

โฑ๏ธ 61 minutes

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Summary

In an emotionally toxic relationship dynamic with her husband, Sophie wants to explore her own participation. Her cis white male partner is emotionally domineering; is she bolstering the very white supremacy culture that she wishes to dismantle by enabling his behavior? Is their marriage salvageable? Jessica offers constructive steps for moving beyond the cycle of harm. ๐ŸŽซ Join me for a virtual Fireside Chat on October 6th! Register here: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/lovelanyadoo/1404115 ๐Ÿ“ Support the podcast and get loads of extras โ€” including a bonus episode of the podcast monthly, only on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/JessicaLanyadoo. ๐Ÿ”ฎ Learn with Jessica, get her book and your free weekly horoscope at https://www.lovelanyadoo.com/ ๐Ÿ‘€ Track transits like a pro! Astrology for Days is available at astrologyfordays.com ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ธ Give what you can to this GoFundMe to provide hot meals to Palestinian children in north Gaza: https://www.gofundme.com/f/Hot-meals-in-gaza-daily Donate to anera.org + if you are in the United States, visit uscpr.org & JVP.org for education and prompts for taking action to support Palestine. ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ธ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ธMECA is on the ground to provide Gaza with medical aid, clean water, food, psychological support, and more. Give what you can at โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ https://www.mecaforpeace.org/โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ โ  SAD and Pol's mutual aid fund for Mx. Yaffa and MASGD https://givebutter.com/iPxsAf ๐Ÿ‡ธ๐Ÿ‡ฉ Visit: https://eyesonsudan.net/donate ๐ŸŒน There are so many ways to give with the Black Fairy Godmother! Find them here: https://lnk.bio/theblackfairygodmotherofficial

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0:00.0

Welcome to Ghost of a Podcast, I'm your host Jessica Lagnato. I'm an astrologer, psychic medium,

0:06.7

and animal communicator, and I'm going to give you your weekly horoscope and no bullshit

0:11.0

mystical advice for living your very best life.

0:16.4

Sophie, welcome to the podcast. What would you like a reading about?

0:20.8

So I'll read my question. Hi Jessica, I love you, love the

0:25.1

podcast. I'm in a three-year relationship with someone who pushes people's

0:29.6

boundaries and lashes out rather than take accountability when confronted.

0:34.0

I recently forced myself to examine the role I played in this behavior

0:38.0

by shifting or ignoring my boundaries to accommodate his demands.

0:42.0

I also recognize the way that as a white woman,

0:44.4

I am participating in white supremacy culture

0:46.6

by giving my white cis man partner a pass for shitty behavior.

0:51.2

Now that I'm facing this, I hope to change the dynamic, but I don't expect it to be easy.

0:56.0

So my questions are, is the relationship salvageable? How do I know when it's time to leave?

1:01.8

This would be a huge financial strain as well as heartbreaking and I don't take the decision lightly.

1:07.1

And how can I trust myself again after participating in my own harm? Lots of love and many blessings. That's a very intense predicament and okay there's lots of layers to this. Now I want to just say we're not going to show your birth information. Your Uranus, Neptune, and Saturn and Capricorn baby,

1:25.9

which means you were born in 1991,

1:27.6

but that's all the people need now.

1:29.3

I have a couple contextual questions.

1:31.5

Do you guys have kids?

1:32.8

No.

1:33.8

Okay. Great. I mean, you know, makes a question slightly less challenging, right?

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