#466 Fantasies, Oral, and More: Sex Tips Galore with Dr. Aly

Shameless Sex

Amy Baldwin

Education, Sexuality, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.4 • 3K Ratings

🗓️ 30 December 2025

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Get Ready for a Sex Education Like No Other: We're Talking Fantasies, Oral Sex, and Everything in Between Whether you're partnered or solo, this episode is full of actionable insights that can help you connect more deeply, communicate more clearly, and bring more pleasure into your life and relationships. Dr. Aly also shares details about her upcoming courses, retreats and intimacy coaching. Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills online course on Weds, Jan 27th-Mar 17th We all receive messages about who we are supposed to be, how we ought to feel, and how we should express ourselves, often enforced through shame and disconnection. Featuring 8 classes with a woven balance of science-based data, embodied exploration, and skills development designed to support you in creating, deepening, and sustaining sexual and emotional intimacy in your relationship(s). Recordings available for those who can't attend live or want extra review. Use code "shameless" for $100 off! Sustainable Intimacy: Refuel Passion for Lasting Love retreat for couples in April 23rd-26th in Sonoma, CA (also available as an on-demand course rental) Differences in desire, changing needs, and the pressures of daily life can crowd out time for intimacy. Whether your goal is to rekindle passion or simply carve out meaningful time together, this 3-night, 4-day retreat offers a supportive space to slow down and savor each other. Uncover what’s blocking intimacy and gain customized tools to support your unique dynamic. Plus, indulge in delicious meals, a heated pool and hot tub, scenic trails, movement and mindfulness classes, a workshop on passionate and dominant touch, and a sensual soirée. Early Bird tickets currently on sale for $200 off! And reach out to Dr. Aly for 1:1 and couples coaching! To learn more go to www.TurnON.love https://www.turnon.love/sexual-and-emotional-intimacy-skillshttps://www.turnon.love/sustainable-intimacy-retreat https://www.turnon.love/sex-and-intimacy-coaching For full episodes: #253 Keeping it Hot with Fantasies and Role Play #405 How to Eat Pu$$y Like a Champ 2.0 #425 How to Suck That D Like a Champ Learn more about the Intimacy Rewired program on episode #458 or click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.intimacyrewired.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And mention Shameless Sex to get $100 off! Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get Erika Lust's beautiful , connected, ethical, and SUPER HOT porn at ⁠⁠⁠http://erikalust.com⁠⁠⁠, and use code XMAS45 to get 45% off! Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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0:00.0	I'm Amy. I'm April. Certified sex educators, sex experts of the year, and bestselling authors.
0:09.3	And we're on a mission to help you have more spicy, connected, and amazing shameless sex.
0:15.4	Welcome to the shameless sex revolution.
0:17.9	We're so close. It's like we have our own language.
0:21.3	We're making sex and relationships shameless.
0:24.3	To learn more, go to ShamelessSex.com.
0:27.1	And for 15% off some of our favorite sex toys,
0:30.0	use code shameless sex at pure pleasure shop.com.
0:34.5	You were listening to a pleasure podcast.
0:37.4	For more from our sex podcast collective, visit pleasurepodcasts.com.
0:42.8	Well, hello everyone. Hey, everybody. Welcome back to the shameless sex podcast. It's almost
0:49.2	26. This is the last episode of 2025. I was wild. Very last one.
1:14.6	This year was really an interesting up and down year, very, very fast year. It went faster than any other year I can remember. Yeah, flew by and yeah, a lot, ups and downs is a way to describe it. Anyone else out there? You can't talk to us. Anyone else? Lots of highs, lots of lows. Yeah. Something in between. The year of, you know, I felt like it was the year of kind of a bipolar in a way.
1:11.2	Yeah. Maybe it's the year of, you know, I felt like it was the year of, of kind of a bipolar in a way. Yeah. A bipolar year for, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I actually, I feel like most people I know would agree with that. Yeah. Yeah. If the tariffs, there were like so many things in the beginning of the year. And it was like, then just, yeah. And a lot of just transitions in general for humans.
1:30.9	So if you didn't experience that, lucky you, and I hope 22 a 6 is still lovely for you. And for the rest of us, here's looking forward. It can only, the only way out is through. So I feel like I'm through it. Now let's go on to 2026. There we go. I'm ready for it.
2:01.2	And with that, this is another lovely mashup episode with Dr. Allison Ash, everyone. He deserves so many mashups because she's been on our show almost 10 times. Yeah. If not 10 times. She's competed with Reed Me, Hocko. Remember? She's not, but we're like, read. He wants to. He's like, well, let me back on.
2:02.5	He's like, damn it, because they teach together.
2:04.1	He's like, she's been the show more than I have. She's brilliant.
2:04.8	She's not, but we're like, read. He wants to. He's like, well, let me back on the show.
2:01.2	He's like, damn it, because they teach together.
2:02.6	He's like, she's been the show more than I am. She's brilliant. She's a professor. She's Stanford educated. She's a doctor. She's got some of the most incredible information and retreats and courses and all the things. All the things. yeah, she's incredible. And so we've done a mashup with her before. She has many episodes on her show and this mashup has three different clips. So maybe like 10 to 50 minute clips from episodes that we love. And if you go to the show notes, if you want to hear about the whole episode, the link will be in the show notes. Wait, is she still still the number one episode? How to Eat Push It Like a Champ?
2:34.5	I haven't looked at the stats in a while.
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