465: Stopping the Protest -- How to Help the Emotional Pursuer

Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy

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Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

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🗓️ 13 November 2024

⏱️ 33 minutes

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"I'm always the one to bring up issues. I want our relationship to be better so I work to address the discomfort between us. Somehow this is a problem and I am now seen as THE problem, a nag, someone that can be tuned out. I've worked so hard here. Help!!!" If this sounds familiar, then this episode on the pursuer's position in the relationship is for you! Join our experts today as they focus on the inside world of the emotional pursuer and help them with the change event that leads to healing in the relationship. George and Laurie work to get underneath the layers of the pursuer's protest to help them and the emotional withdrawer in their life understand the pain, anguish and desperation of the pursuer. This softening event is the gamechanger for pursuers and our recovering emotional withdrawers are pivotal in this change! Learn how to manage rejection and communicate the underlying need with safety and vulnerability. Our hosts' roleplay highlights for listeners exactly what this conversation can sound like. Make sure to come back for our follow up show on the sexual pursuer next time. As always, keep it hot y'all! Check out this episode's sponsor: Cook Unity! Go to cookunity.com/foreplay or use the code foreplay at checkout to get 50% off your first week of dinners! Great for those busy days when you don't have the time to prep and cook a meal! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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1:10.1	self-love, self-healing, and spiritual
1:12.4	evolution. I take you on the journey of my own trauma healing and share real, raw, and authentic
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1:41.2	Welcome to the School of Love.
1:43.0	Let's do it.
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