This is a Glass Box Media Podcast.

Welcome to the Ziegler Show.

This is episode 464 and today we bring you Chantie Feldhorn and we're going to talk about kindness, but not in the way you're thinking.

This isn't a do-the-right-thing discussion.

Shanty is a Harvard University grad and was an analyst on Wall Street before unexpectedly becoming a social researcher, best-selling author and popular speaker.

Today she uses her analytical skills to investigate life-changing truths about relationships.

That's what we're talking about today.

Her groundbreaking research-based books such as For Women Only have sold more than 2 million copies in 23 languages

widely read in homes, counseling centers, and corporations worldwide.

The new book, The Kindness Challenge, is catalyzing a movement of kindness across the country and beyond.

But here's a statement from Shanti in her book I want you to hear.

It says whether we thrive depends far more on how we choose to treat others

than on how we ourselves are treated.

I'll repeat that again just a minute because you got to wrap your head around that one. This is brain

training folks reprogramming your mind which is so much the essence of what

Zig Ziegler brought us to. After the interview I took the book home and told my wife we've got to do

this. This is an incredible interview.

You're what you are and where you are because of what's gone into your mind.

You can change what you are.

You can change where you are by changing what goes into your mind. You cannot become what you need to be by remaining what you are. If you can't

take a huge step to begin with. Take as big a step as you can, but take it now. That's the key.

Take it now. Now.

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