461: One won't hurt [Thought Swap]
Take a Break from Drinking
Rachel Hart
4.9 • 2.7K Ratings
🗓️ 24 March 2026
⏱️ 14 minutes
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Summary
Have you ever found yourself thinking, "One won't hurt"?
It seems like a harmless excuse to have just one drink, but if you've experienced it, you know that one often turns into two, three, or more. And in this episode, you'll hear why this thought feels so believable, how it keeps you stuck in the same pattern, and why it's not about willpower, but about seeing what's missing in that moment.
Tune in this week to learn how to question the promise of "One won't hurt," and how simply noticing what's left out in that thought creates space for a different decision. This episode will help you see the bigger picture, build awareness, and make changes in the moment, not just tomorrow.
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| 0:00.0 | one won't hurt. It sounds so reasonable, right? You're just going to have one drink. But if you're like me, |
| 0:06.8 | one often turned into two and then three and then probably a lot more. Yet despite breaking my |
| 0:13.5 | promise again and again that I was only going to have one drink, when I told myself in the moment |
| 0:19.3 | that one won't hurt, it just felt so true and believable. |
| 0:24.5 | This is episode 461, and today I'm going to give you three ways to start questioning this thought, |
| 0:30.8 | not by scaring yourself or focusing on all the downsides of drinking, but by looking at what |
| 0:36.3 | this thought leaves out, because that's the key. |
| 0:39.2 | It's not that one won't hurt is completely wrong. It's just that it's incomplete. |
| 0:45.5 | Whether you want to drink less or stop drinking, this podcast will help you change the habit |
| 0:50.8 | from the inside out. We're challenging conventional wisdom about why people drink and why it can be hard to resist |
| 0:58.0 | temptation. |
| 0:59.0 | No labels, no judgment, just practical tools to take control of your desire and stop worrying |
| 1:05.0 | about your drinking. |
| 1:07.0 | Now here's your host, Rachel Hart. |
| 1:10.0 | All right. Now here's your host, Rachel Hart. |
| 1:17.0 | All right, today we're going to do another thought swap episode. |
| 1:22.0 | It's all about poking holes in the beliefs that lead to drinking more than you want. |
| 1:29.6 | And today we're talking about a really common excuse that sounds so reasonable when your brain offers it up, it's that thought, |
| 1:36.0 | one won't hurt. Now, before we go any further, I just want to zoom out on this thought for a second because people don't just use it with alcohol. We use it in lots of situations. We tell ourselves, |
| 1:41.9 | one cookie won't hurt. one missed workout won't hurt, |
| 1:45.8 | adding one more thing to my cart won't hurt. And here's what I think is really interesting. |
| 1:51.8 | We don't use this thought for things that we don't feel conflicted about. Most people don't |
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