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Aware & Aggravated

46. Performative People & The Violence Of Being Ignored

Aware & Aggravated

Aware and Aggravated

Self-improvement, Mental Health, Unknown, Education, Health & Fitness

513.2K Ratings

🗓️ 10 July 2025

⏱️ 57 minutes

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0:00.0

Hello. Hi, friends. My house didn't get broken into. I left you off on a cliffhanger.

0:07.5

I loved it you. Everything was fine with the house. I don't want to talk about none of that right now.

0:12.1

This has been like burning a hole in me and I just got off the phone with my sister. We were just ranting about this.

0:16.9

I need to talk about social media. The new like most addictive drug in the world is fame. Something else we're going to talk about social media. The new, like, most addictive drug in the world is fame.

0:23.1

Something else we're going to talk about is performative people being the most insufferable

0:28.0

and annoying to be around because there's a lot of guilt that goes in to dealing with people

0:33.7

who are performative.

0:34.7

Like people, like you go to a restaurant.

0:36.3

This happened to me the other day.

0:37.4

You go to a restaurant. You happened to me the other day.

0:38.3

You go to a restaurant.

0:40.9

You got a waiter who's doing the goddamn most.

0:46.5

They just doing too much for them to be performative and doing all this and that.

0:51.1

For you to just want to go sit down and eat and order your drink and order your food,

0:54.5

you're looked at as the bad guy and you're like the asshole.

1:00.1

If you don't match their performance, if you don't perform back to validate them and make them feel good and like, if you don't match their performance, you're the bad guy.

1:04.0

So I'm going to talk about something I've realized about the guilt around that.

1:06.8

But first, I want to go into this social media mental illness going on.

1:13.1

It's irritating the shit out of me, watching so many people go through it.

1:17.1

Where do I want to start?

1:19.4

The Love Island trend going on right now, the show Love Island.

1:23.8

Everybody's up in arms and doing all kind of crazy shit to the people on that show.

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