#455 Top Porn Scenes, Lube, and Sex and Aging - with Jessica Drake

Shameless Sex

Amy Baldwin

Self-improvement, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Education

4.3 • 2.8K Ratings

🗓️ 14 October 2025

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

**Award Winning Porn Star and Director Teaches Us About Sex and Pleasure at All Ages** Join us for a candid conversation with the one and only Jessica Drake, a trailblazing sex educator, advocate, and former adult industry performer. With over two decades of experience, jessica has been redefining the way we think about sex, pleasure, and consent. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • What porn looks like behind the scenes and what types of shoots changed Jessica's life for the better • The concept of "porn literacy" and why it's essential for a healthier relationship with sex and media • Jessica's thoughts on porn and sex addiction, and her tips for managing intake and consumption • How Jessica's work with Wicked Sensual Care has helped her create a more inclusive and pleasure-positive sex culture • What Jessica is learning about sex and aging and the importance of high quality lube As a pioneer in the field of sex education, Jessica has used her expertise to create judgment-free, trauma-informed spaces that resonate with audiences from all walks of life. Her mission is to open minds, dismantle stereotypes, and redefine the way society views sex work and sexual pleasure. Tune in for a conversation that will challenge your assumptions, spark new ideas, and leave you feeling empowered to take control of your own sex life. **So, what's the most surprising thing Jessica learned from her 25 years in the industry?** "It's not about the sex; it's about the people." Find out what she means by that, and so much more, on this episode of Shameless Sex. Follow Jessica on IG ⁠@jessicadrake⁠ Follow Jessica on X ⁠@thejessicadrake⁠ Learn more about Wicked Sensual Care here: ⁠https://wickedsensualcare.com Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 45% off our favorite (super hot) ethical porn with code SEX45 at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://erikalust.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 30% off your new dream mattress with code Shameless at ⁠https://brooklynbedding.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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0:00.0	And I just sat there and thought to myself, this is one of the most unique moments in adult,
0:08.2	entertainment, production, education, whatever, that there ever was. And it was just so beautiful.
0:14.4	I think it's the most beautiful thing I've created in my entire career ever.
0:22.6	I'm Amy. I'm April. Certified sex educators, sex experts of the year, and bestselling authors.
0:29.5	And we're on a mission to help you have more spicy, connected, and amazing shameless sex.
0:35.6	Welcome to the shameless sex revolution.
0:38.5	We're so close.
0:39.2	We're making sex and relationships shameless.
0:44.5	To learn more, go to shamelesssex.com.
0:47.3	And for 15% off some of our favorite sex toys, use code shameless sex at pure pleasure shop.com.
0:54.7	You were listening to a pleasure podcast.
0:57.9	For more from our sex podcast collective, visit pleasurepodcasts.com.
1:03.1	Well, hello everyone.
1:04.3	Hey, everybody.
1:05.6	Welcome back to the shameless sex podcast.
1:08.8	It's October.
1:09.5	It's Cocktober.
1:10.3	Cocktober.
1:10.6	Cocktober. And Kinktober. And Kinktober. And almost Halloween. And Jessica Drake Tober. And Jessica Drake Tober. Because this is part two of the episode. If you listen to last week, you heard us say, this is so awesome. We want to keep going. So we have a whole other episode, well, a continuation of that conversation.
1:29.1	And this one dives into other aspects of the porn world, but also sex and aging, lube, all kinds of
1:35.7	things. That interview, we obviously did one full long interview with her. And it didn't feel like
1:42.3	it was nearly two hours. We could have was we could have gone for hours we could have
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