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Delight Your Marriage

454-Hopeless & Frustrated to Restored Legacy: Craig's Transformation Story

Delight Your Marriage

Belah Rose

Sexuality, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.7589 Ratings

🗓️ 25 October 2024

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

We're thrilled to share Craig's story with you today.

For years, Craig and his wife were stuck in a painful cycle—"You always ____," "You never _____"—both keeping score, building walls of resentment, and matching hurt with hurt. Things seemed like they'd never change.

Then, a friend from church mentioned the transformation he had experienced through Delight Your Marriage. Craig was skeptical at first, but as the months passed, he couldn't deny the remarkable shift in his friend's life. That's when Craig decided to take the first step and schedule a Clarity Call.

What surprised him most was that the change didn't come from trying to fix his wife—it started with him. Within the first month, Craig embraced a new way of showing up: becoming "quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger." Through his own transformation, the marriage began to heal.

Today, Craig shares with joy that his children will never have to grow up in a divided home. The family tree will remain unbroken, with a straight and strong trunk—thanks to the tools, community, and growth Craig found through our program.

We hope Craig's story reminds you that change is possible. It's possible to break free from arguments. It's possible to experience peace and joy in your marriage. And it's possible for God to rewrite your story in ways you never imagined.

We believe in you, and we are cheering you on.

Love,

Belah & Team

PS - If you want a change in your marriage like Craig had, with no more arguing and no more resentment, we would love to talk with you. Check out our free Clarity Call here: delightyourmarriage.com/cc

 

PPS - Check out this testimonial from (another) recent graduate:

"My wife had her mind pretty much set on divorce. She said she had an upcoming meeting with an attorney when I first joined the program. My stress level was up, my appetite was pretty much nothing, and I couldn't sleep. [After MR}, I have grown spiritually, mentally, and feel more whole as a person. My wife and I have come to a place in our marriage where it used to be, like when we first got married. We are happy to be around each other again, can't wait to see each other at the end of the day, and have more connected conversations again."

Transcript

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0:00.0

100 years from now, my great-grandchildren won't see the letters BYM or M-R anywhere on their family tree,

0:09.7

but there will be a straight trunk instead of a split because of DYM.

0:16.8

Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast.

0:20.1

You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy.

0:26.3

Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about.

0:31.6

Delight your marriage.

1:16.3

Hi there, it's Bella. Welcome back to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. This is a conversation with a gentleman who started out with, I don't know, zero hope. I think he says something like that in his conversation. I don't know if you're there. I don't know if you know someone who's there. But if that's the case, Craig understands. He gets it. He gets the idea. I remember him coming on the first call and the hopelessness and anger in his voice, they were mixed.

1:29.4

He was so done. He was so done and so frustrated. And God has turned it all around.

1:30.8

Turned it all around.

1:35.8

In fact, just before I got on this call, I was sending him a couple text messages and just seeing how they're doing.

1:37.0

And what does he think about me sharing this on the podcast?

1:40.1

And he said, yeah, we're still doing great.

1:42.7

Thanks to you and Jesus.

1:44.7

Amen. Jesus gets all and Jesus. Amen.

1:46.0

Jesus gets all the credit.

1:48.3

But you know, he does need us to do some work.

1:51.2

Isn't that true?

1:52.1

God chooses to allow us to be involved in his plan.

1:55.6

So if God wants to change your marriage, he needs you to do work to change the marriage. I really believe that.

2:04.7

So I just invite you to listen in. If you're new to the Delight Your Marriage podcast, my name's

2:10.6

Bella Rose. I'm the author and coach and trainer, and I'm just so honored to walk alongside

2:16.3

folks in our programs and witness God do

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