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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

452 - Navigating Unrequited Feelings - Listener Q&A

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Sexuality, Self-improvement, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education

4.9935 Ratings

🗓️ 12 December 2023

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

Today we're doing our last Q&A episode of the year! We'll be tackling one final batch of listener questions ranging from unrequited NRE, insecurity and hypersexuality, determining if conscious monogamy is right for you, and more! If you're interested in submitting a question for a future Q&A episode, consider becoming one of our Patreon supporters at patreon.com/multiamory! If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of like-minded listeners at patreon.com/Multiamory. You can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, bonus episodes, and more! This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/multi and get 10% off your first month.Get hair care that is completely customized to your hair and your life AND get 15% off at Prose.com/multiamoryQuality lube is essential for good sexual experiences. Try our absolute favorite, Uberlube and get 10% off plus free shipping with promo code MULTIAMORY Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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One thing that I found immediately after becoming monogamous again that a friend pointed out to me,

0:10.0

he was like, yeah, when you're monogamous, the idea in your brain that every person could be a potential mate kind of shuts off.

0:19.7

And I didn't even think about it like that until then.

0:24.6

But it's this idea that, especially when I was non-monogamous,

0:28.2

I would meet somebody and I'd be like, huh,

0:30.7

maybe I could date that person.

0:32.4

Could I do this person?

0:33.8

What do I think about them?

0:35.4

They're kind of hot, or they're kind of interesting.

0:37.6

Maybe I would want to explore that further.

0:40.0

And while it's exciting and fun to get the opportunity to do that, it's also time-consuming and

0:45.4

emotionally consuming.

0:48.2

And to not be putting out that energy towards people, I do think that it creates room for that energy to be

0:55.9

funneled into other areas of your life.

0:59.4

Welcome to the Multiamari podcast.

1:02.6

I'm Jace.

1:03.6

I'm Emily.

1:04.7

And I'm Dettaker.

1:05.9

We believe in looking to the future of relationships,

1:09.0

not maintaining the status quo of the past.

1:12.1

Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous,

1:14.7

swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently,

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