Hi, my name is Jay. I am a 27 year old Latino trans man. I identify as queer. I use he, him pronouns and as far as sex goes I'm into everything in between

vanilla and like knife play kinky stuff and as far as profession goes I'm a handyman so I do a little bit of everything I do

Renovating of homes anything that is within a home I do my license'm a licensed plumber carpenter and electrician so everything pretty much. I grew up in

northern Virginia in Arlington to be more specific very close to DC we pretty much are DC and religious background extremely

Catholic growing up that was the cause of a hatred for my identity as queer

for the longest time until I sort of grew out of it. I also grew up in a

Bolivian household. We never talked about sex. It was very like, ah, we don't do that.

That's just to create other lives and that's sad.

Hello lovely humans I'm Wai O' Lee and you are listening to sex stories

a podcast where we practice sharing details about sex, what we want,

all that in an effort to lead better laid lives. And my guest, I'm so excited you already

heard him introduce himself to you welcome Jay.

Thanks I'm really excited to be here. I'm so excited to have you be here. There are

so many things that I want to ask questions about, but let's start with our usual.

When do you first remember hearing about sex?

So the first time I remember hearing about sex was when I was either four or five years old.

And so I was actually born in Bolivia, so I grew up the first like eight years of my life in Bolivia.

Whoa, where in Bolivia?

In La Guachava, I'm of Bolivia.

So it's like the central part.

And so I grew up in a neighborhood with boys like only there was no girls and I should like I'm a

trans guy so I was born female identified as male not like not till my late teens, but it was really, it was really complicated for me, like the whole sex thing because I heard about sex when I was four or five when we were

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