Welcome to Ghost of a Podcast. I'm your host, Jessica Lignato. I'm an astrologer,

psychic medium, and animal communicator, and I'm gonna give you your weekly

horoscope and no bullshit, mystical advice for living your very best life.

Welcome back to What is the 45th episode of Ghost of a Podcast. I've got a

question for you, so let's just get to it. Hi Jessica, my birthday is September

10th, 1987. I was born in Orange, California. My time of birth is 11.39 am. I am

reaching out to you, regarding where I'm at in my life. I'm 31. I feel like I'm in a

really big transitional period, and I'm feeling really stuck. A lot of my

coping and self-suiting strategies include drinking alcohol, endating, and sex, and

substance use, and just a lot of maladaptive behaviors that I find really hard

to get out of, and it's scary because I grew up with a mom who's an alcoholic, and

my brother died of a heroin overdose, so I know I'm really susceptible to

addiction. I think one of the hardest things for me to cope with right now is I've

been single for almost seven years, and I'm just having a really hard time

holding on to relationships. I find that men are really interested in the

beginning, and I know that I'm anxiously attached. They either become

disinterested, or I don't know. It's just like been for years, or I'm dating

someone, and we're into each other, and then all of a sudden they're like not

into it, and it feels like I'm doing something wrong, or that I'm being too

needy. If you have any kind of advice or suggestions, it is so appreciated.

Thank you for all your work, and for your podcast. Lots of love. Bye. All right, well

thank you for this question. It's a really important one, and there's a lot of

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