#45 I Ain't 'Fraid of No Ghosts
HELP! I Suck at Dating
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3.8 • 4.5K Ratings
🗓️ 27 August 2018
⏱️ 70 minutes
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Summary
Dean, Jared and Vanessa head right into the haunted house, to see why people ghost each other. Elle Huerta from the Mend app calls in to help us understand the motivations behind ghosting, and has some tips on how to end relationships in a responsible way. And do you know what “zombie-ing”, “cushioning” and “orbiting” are?? It may be happening to you right now, so listen to find out what it is, and how to stop it! Plus, Vanessa opens up about her future as a mother, and lets her guard down about a dilemma in her life.
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| 0:00.0 | I suck at dating with Dean Vanessa and Jared and I heart radio podcast |
| 0:10.1 | Hello everybody and welcome to an all-new episode of help I suck at dating this is Jared |
| 0:15.2 | Hey, Ben join in studio by Dean Ungler. Oh look at me a round of applause for that one |
| 0:19.9 | Dean you just always deserve a ride. I didn't do anything, but I'll take the round of applause |
| 0:23.1 | You always do something we also have Vanessa Gremaldi |
| 0:26.1 | Mark and Eastern thanks for joining us as always |
| 0:32.2 | Oh |
| 0:34.2 | Back in studio for the first time |
| 0:39.7 | It's never the same without mark. No, you guys are true the backbone of this podcast and you guys don't deserve the credit |
| 0:49.8 | Flip flop that well, we also have a very special guest on the phone |
| 0:53.6 | We are joined by L Huerta from men to L. How are you? |
| 1:01.8 | To be back. How are you? We're fantastic. We're full energy today. L. How are you? |
| 1:06.3 | I'm doing well. Thank you for not ghosting me. I'm happy to be your time. No, no, no ghosting on this |
| 1:12.3 | So L you've been on the podcast before but this is the first time that you're talking to Dean. Hello |
| 1:15.7 | Hello, hi Dean welcome back. Hi L pleasure to meet you over the phone |
| 1:19.5 | And so L we've talked about your app before with men but specifically today we wanted you to come on the podcast talk about a very |
| 1:25.7 | specific subject. Can you talk a little bit about an article that you wrote about ghosting someone? |
| 1:30.9 | Yes, so |
| 1:33.2 | So we talked to a lot of vendors about the reasons that they go sit |
| 1:39.0 | And we shared 14 people responses why they go sit and I think it's just so interesting because if you really start to hear these stories and understand |
| 1:48.5 | Why they go sit I think it really helps if you are being ghosted |
| 1:52.7 | I think it can kind of help you give that closure |
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