Tomorrow what I'm going to do is have two glasses, two large glasses.

I'm going to have desire on one glass, right, and decisions on the other glass.

And so for whatever reason, people put way more emphasis on desires.

But they don't fill up the decisions that drive the desires.

Right?

So here's what I'm starting to realize.

I'm starting to realize that most humans want you to be more active in their desires than they're willing to be active in their desires.

Probably cast over.

You ready?

Alright. The jump that you made one getting rebaptized hitting that water again, you know, but then not only that

Your ability to deal with conflict your willingness to with while's still, I would say probably not your favorite thing to do,

your ability to face things head on and not be running from it.

I mean, it's a huge change in people like to make a change

between 43 and 53 is somebody who's willing to deal with adversity and deal with

conflict whereas 3334 I'm talking about you know so again it's crazy too I

look back you know what I'm saying just like when you see yourself like an out-of-body

experience oh yeah no I'm talking about like I told'all, when I say it used to be ghost, I'm

talking about the minute the tension got even ratcheted up, I'm talking about, let's say it's

at a two, if the tension went from a two to a three, he was like, I'm out.

And you know Carl wasn't trying to deal with it.

No, nowhere near. So I would just be looking around like that Will Smith mean when he walked in the crib for the last time.

But you, okay, so let's just talk about it because again, in order to grow, right?

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