#448: Your Son Isn’t Lazy — How to Empower Boys to Succeed [RE-BROADCAST]
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🗓️ 25 November 2020
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Summary
This is a re-broadcast. The episode originally ran in October 2018.
Do you have a teenage boy who struggles in school? Or do you have a younger son who you can imagine struggling in school as he gets older? He may be an otherwise capable young man, but seems apathetic and unmotivated, to the point you think he’s not excelling simply because he’s lazy. My guest today says that’s the wrong conclusion to draw, and one that leads to the wrong parenting approach to addressing it.
His name is Adam Price and he’s a child psychologist and the author of He’s Not Lazy: Empowering Your Son to Believe in Himself. Today on the show, Dr. Price argues that the real reason many young men are unmotivated is not that they don’t care about succeeding, but that they feel too much pressure to do so, and are scared of failing. We discuss why nagging and over-parenting simply exacerbates this issue, and how stepping back and giving boys more autonomy can help them become more self-directed and find their footing.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey Brett here, we're taking a quick break for the Thanksgiving holiday here in the United States. |
| 0:03.6 | So we're going to re-broadcasting episode number 448. Your son isn't lazy. It was originally broadcasted |
| 0:08.9 | October 2018. It's one of our most downloaded episodes ever. It's with the child psychologist by |
| 0:13.5 | the name of Adam Price and it's a great podcast. If you have sons, boys who look like they're disengaged, |
| 0:19.4 | unmotivated about school, about life. A lot of great insights here and feel tested insights and how |
| 0:24.1 | to help and reach out to those boys. So check it out. I hope you enjoyed it and for those |
| 0:27.4 | United States, hope you have a happy Thanksgiving. We'll see you on Monday. |
| 0:45.3 | Brett McKay here and welcome to another edition of the Art of Manliness Podcast. Do you have a |
| 0:49.6 | teenage boy who struggles in school or do you have a younger son who you can imagine |
| 0:53.7 | struggling with as he gets older? He may otherwise be a capable young man but seems apathetic and |
| 0:57.9 | unmotivated to the point you think he's not excelling simply because he's lazy. My guest day says |
| 1:02.9 | that's the wrong conclusion to draw and one that leads to the wrong parenting approach to addressing |
| 1:06.9 | him. His name is Adam Price and he's the child psychologist and the author of the book he's not |
| 1:10.7 | lazy empowering your son to believe in himself. Today on the show, Dr. Price argues that the real |
| 1:14.8 | reason many young men are unmotivated is not that they don't care about succeeding but that they |
| 1:18.9 | feel too much pressure to do so and are scared of failing. We discuss why nagging and over |
| 1:23.4 | parenting simply exacerbates the issue and how stepping back and giving boys more autonomy can help |
| 1:28.0 | them become more self-directed and find their footing. After the show's over, check out the show |
| 1:31.8 | notes at a-wim.is slash not lazy. |
| 1:47.6 | Dr. Adam Price, welcome to the show. Hey, thanks for having me. |
| 1:51.8 | So you're a clinical psychologist who specializes in children and teenagers and because of your work, |
| 1:58.7 | you've encountered a lot of high school boys who, you know, they don't have serious mental issues |
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