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Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression

445 Stop Believing Everything You Think

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Practical Skills for Anxiety, Panic & Depression

Kimberley Quinlan, LMFT | Anxiety & OCD Specialist

Self-improvement, Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.9882 Ratings

🗓️ 4 August 2025

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of Your Anxiety Toolkit, Kimberley Quinlan shares powerful tools to help you stop treating every thought and feeling like a fact—so you can break free from anxiety's grip and start living in alignment with your values.

 

Transcript

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0:00.0

Have you ever had a moment where one thought, just one thought, sent you into a spiral of uncertainty,

0:07.9

fear, shame and panic? And then as if that wasn't enough, that one thought, or maybe many

0:13.7

thoughts caused you to completely change the plan for your day. This is such a common thing and it's so easy when you're

0:23.5

anxious to completely abort the plan and give all of your attention to trying to prevent

0:29.0

the fear from happening. What if I told you that the most life challenging tools in managing

0:36.6

anxiety and uncertainty, OCD, panic,

0:39.7

is to stop treating every thought like it is so important and so dangerous.

0:48.3

I'm Kimbilly Quinlan. Welcome back to your anxiety toolkit, your go-to resource for all things anxiety, OCD, and mental health.

0:59.8

This is a place where you can leave all the fluff behind and access specific, effective, and compassionate tools that are science-backed and used by me, my clients, and my students.

1:13.5

So let's get going.

1:19.0

Okay, before we get started, let's just cut to the real point, which is the main thing I want you to take away from today is we have to stop thinking

1:31.3

that every thought we have is a fact. Just because you think something doesn't mean it's a fact

1:39.9

or true or imminent or dangerous. We have thousands and thousands of thoughts every single day,

1:48.2

and we have to learn how to not consider each and every one of them as facts. Now, I know that's

1:56.9

easier said than done. We're going to talk about it today. But that's the main thing that

2:01.1

we're focusing on here is that your thoughts are not facts. For some people, this is life-changing.

2:09.6

Because they've been told that their thoughts mean something, that just because they feel like

2:15.6

they have this feeling that's associated that they should pay

2:19.4

attention and that it's a sign and that, you know, they've maybe learned about manifestation.

2:25.0

And the problem with that, I'm not against it, but the problem with that is if you have anxiety,

2:30.3

it becomes very, very difficult to differentiate the difference between a true gut feeling and

2:38.4

an anxious, intrusive thought. So we're going to talk about it here today, and I want you to

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