444: Letting Go of Mom Guilt and Overthinking
Wire Talk with Karen Stubbs
Karen Stubbs
4.9 • 936 Ratings
🗓️ 26 November 2024
⏱️ 21 minutes
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Summary
Moms often struggle with guilt and overthinking, especially when it comes to making decisions for their families. In this episode, Karen talks about how to avoid the trap of overanalyzing every choice and instead focus on what brings peace and unity to your family. Whether you're navigating school decisions, holiday traditions, or just everyday challenges, this discussion will help you let go of guilt and embrace the best yes for your family with confidence.
Episode Recap:
- 4:00 Navigating mom guilt around holiday decisions
- 7:30 Deciding whether to do Elf on the Shelf
- 13:00 Setting boundaries for attending kids' birthday parties
- 17:45 Learning to communicate clearly with your children before making commitments
- 22:00 Making decisions that are right for YOUR family, without comparison
Scripture for Reflection:
Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV): "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."
Questions for Discussion:
- What kind of mom guilt are you facing in this season of parenting, and how can you let go of it?
- How do you decide which traditions to embrace and which to let go of?
- What are some ways you can involve your kids in making decisions, like attending parties or events?
- How can we give ourselves grace if our plans or decisions don’t look like those of other families?
Resources:
Download the BOAW Moms app (for FREE!) [App Store] [Google Play]
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | My kids are four and a half, three and one. |
| 0:02.3 | I always thought I would homeschool, but recently we've made the decision to enroll our daughter in a school that our church is starting. |
| 0:09.5 | I feel like we're making the right decision for our family and our daughter. |
| 0:13.0 | However, I still struggle with feeling like good mom's homeschool, and if I was a good mom, then I could homeschool. |
| 0:20.2 | I wish I could figure out a way to help moms |
| 0:25.1 | not feel like a bad mom. Because if you're putting your child in whatever school situation |
| 0:32.1 | you so choose, Christian school, homeschool, private school, public school, whatever, and you've prayed about it |
| 0:40.0 | and you have a piece about it, then you should rest in that peace that God is giving you. |
| 0:45.3 | So it doesn't mean you're a bad mom. You've done all the work. So now you just need to rest. |
| 0:50.9 | Welcome to Wire Talk, where we encourage and equip moms by answering practical questions about |
| 0:56.2 | motherhood. We want to help instill God's truth in your heart so you can experience more joy |
| 1:00.8 | and peace on your journey of motherhood. Are you ready for some truth? Let's dive in. |
| 1:07.8 | Well, hello and welcome to Wiretok. We are so thrilled you are here with us today. |
| 1:12.8 | If you don't know my voice or know my face, I'm Emily Kurosik, your host, and next to me is my mom, Karen Stubbs. |
| 1:19.1 | Hey, Mom. |
| 1:19.6 | Hey, Emily. |
| 1:20.6 | How are you? |
| 1:21.3 | I am so wonderful. |
| 1:22.6 | I'm a lot of it. |
| 1:23.5 | Pink. |
| 1:23.9 | How cute. |
| 1:24.7 | Thank you. |
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