#443: What Building Your Own Coffin Teaches You About Life, Death, and Meaning

The Art of Manliness

Society & Culture, Education, Philosophy

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🗓️ 24 September 2018

⏱️ 49 minutes

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When David Giffels was 50 years old and completely healthy, he decided to build his own coffin with his 81-year-old, master craftsman father. Why? Well, I ask him that on today’s podcast. David Giffels is a writer who previously published a book of essays about growing up in the Rust Belt of Ohio in the 1970s. That title is called The Hard Way on Purpose. In his latest book, Furnishing Eternity: A Father, a Son, a Coffin, and a Measure of Life, he recounts the experience of building his own coffin with his father and the lessons about life, aging, and death that he picked up along the way. We begin the show discussing why many in the Rust Belt live by the motto, "The Hard Way on Purpose," and how it manifests itself in their undying loyalty to their sports teams that come up short year after year. We then shift gears and discuss David’s project of building his own casket with his dad, the expectations he had going into it, and why lying in your own coffin is, unfortunately, not as profound of an experience as you’d think it would be. Get the show notes at aom.is/giffels.

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1:10.1	Brett McKay here, and welcome to another edition of The Art of Manliness podcast.
1:13.8	When David Giffel's was 50 years old and completely healthy, he decided to build his own coffin with his 81-year-old master craftsman father.
1:20.6	Why? Well, I ask him that in the podcast today.
1:22.8	David Giffel's a writer who previously published a book of essays about growing up in the rust belt of Ohio in the 1970s called The Hard Way on Purpose.
1:29.5	In his latest book, Furnishing Eternity, A Father, A Son, A Coffin, and A Measure of Life.
1:34.2	He recounts the experience of building his own coffin with his father in the lessons about life, aging, and death that he picked up along the way.
1:39.9	We'll be going to show discussing why many in the rust belt lived by the motto The Hard Way on Purpose and how it manifests itself in their undying loyalty through their sports teams that come up short year after year.
1:48.0	We then shift years and discuss David's project of building his own casket with his dad.
1:51.7	The expectations he had going into it and why lying in your own coffin is, unfortunately, not as profound into experience as you think you would be.
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