442: Sextortion Scam Security for Naive Nudes | Feedback Friday
The Jordan Harbinger Show
Jordan Harbinger
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🗓️ 4 December 2020
⏱️ 53 minutes
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Summary
In a momentary lapse of your usual good sense, you naïvely provided nude selfies to someone on a dating app, and now they're trying to extort a ransom from you. If you don't pay up, they've threatened to share said nude selfies with your family, friends, and employer. Now what can you do? We examine your solution for this quandary and more here on Feedback Friday!
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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:- A sextortionist is threatening to send your nude selfies to family, friends, and employer if you don't pay up! Now what?
- You've always found it easier to make friends with women, but you're married and it seems inappropriate. What can you do to better relate to other men and strike up friendships with them when it always seems like an awkward, fruitless effort?
- You're proud to work for a company that rallies around racial equity, LGBTQ+, and mental health awareness. But you feel pressured to add hashtags and pronouns to your email closing in order to signal support, which just feels performative and icky -- because you believe action should precede speech. Are you being unreasonable?
- Even though you landed your dream job in February, the drudgery of working from home every day since the pandemic started has worn down whatever motivation you once had to stay in physical and mental shape. How can you climb out of the funk of feeling bad about your situation and not wanting to do anything about it?
- You've been getting Spanish lessons through Fiverr, and you're at the awkward stage between being able to hold a fluid conversation and knowing most of the stuff covered in basic lessons. What can you do to make further progress on your language learning from here?
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Feedback Friday. I'm your host, Jordan Harbinger. Today I'm here with my |
| 0:08.0 | Feedback Friday producer, my accessory and advisory, Gabriel Mizrahi. On the Jordan |
| 0:13.4 | Harbinger show, we decode the stories, secrets, and skills of the world's most fascinating |
| 0:17.6 | people and turn their wisdom into practical advice that you can use to impact your own |
| 0:21.8 | life and those around you. When I help you see the matrix, when it comes to how these |
| 0:25.8 | amazing people think and behave, and our mission is to help you become a better informed, |
| 0:29.6 | more critical thinker, so you can get a deeper understanding of how the world works and |
| 0:33.6 | makes sense of what's really happening even inside your own mind. If you're new to |
| 0:37.5 | the show on Fridays, we give advice to you and answer listener questions. The rest of |
| 0:41.4 | the week, we have long form interviews and conversations with a variety of amazing |
| 0:45.2 | folks from spies to CEOs, athletes to authors, thinkers, and performers. And for a selection |
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| 1:00.7 | former head of OSHA under Obama. Actually, he was just tapped for the COVID-19 response |
| 1:05.1 | team by Joe Biden. Anyway, this episode has nothing to do with that. It's all about fake |
| 1:09.5 | science. You know, big tobacco sponsored studies that showed that smoking was somehow good |
| 1:13.6 | for you. Turns out that happens with a lot of items that we use every day. Companies |
| 1:18.2 | just make up studies and commission studies so that we think certain products are safe |
| 1:23.2 | when they're actually very hazardous for us. We also had an interview with the one and |
| 1:26.8 | only Russell Brandt. That's right. Russell Brandt, this is one from the vault and was |
| 1:30.6 | quite enjoyable. I think you'll dig it as well. So make sure you've had a listen to everything |
| 1:34.6 | we created for you this week. You can reach us on these Friday shows, these advice shows, |
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