#440 Riding Dirty: Sex Positions by the “Penis Genius”

Shameless Sex

Amy Baldwin

Self-improvement, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Education

4.3 • 2.8K Ratings

🗓️ 1 July 2025

⏱️ 46 minutes

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In this episode, we dive deep with repeat guest Dr. Sadie Allison, pioneering sexologist and bestselling author of Ride ’Em Cowgirl, who’s been helping people tap into their sexuality for 25 years. She has been featured on The Howard Stern Show, Discovery Health, Playboy Radio, and in Cosmopolitan and has been a guest on over 1,000 radio shows and podcasts. In this episode, you’ll learn: `How Dr. Sadie became the “penis genius” and a pioneer in sex education (and what inspired her iconic books) The most common fears and challenges people face when it comes to “getting on top”—and how to overcome them without breaking a sweat (or a hip) The crucial but often-overlooked role of foreplay, arousal, lubrication, and entry—why the beginning can make or break the ride Underrated sex positions that can totally transform your pleasure (plus, Dr. Sadie’s personal favorites!) The one riding technique everyone should know for mind-blowing penetration Dr. Sadie’s compassionate advice for women who experience pain, dryness, or discomfort—plus body-safe ways to keep intimacy hot and satisfying How to take control of your own orgasm while on top—and exactly what to do to make it happen The best sex toys to add a little extra bounce to your ride Why tune in? Whether you’re a riding rookie or looking to level up your “bucking” (aka fucking) game, this episode is packed with practical tips, playful wisdom, and zero shame. You’ll walk away with more confidence, more creativity, and the know-how to make your ride a wild one—for both you and your partner. Find her at https://www.ticklekitty.com and https://golovecbd.com and follow @drsadieallison, @ticklekitty, and @golovecbd on Instagram and Facebook Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: ⁠⁠https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b⁠⁠ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 45% off our favorite (super hot) ethical porn with code COUPLES45 at ⁠https://erikalust.com⁠ Listen to Sex Ed With DB here: https://www.sexedwithdb.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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0:00.0	So you want to think about the difference between stroking for you versus stroking for what's going to feel good for her.
0:06.1	It's very different and it's very subtle.
0:08.5	But you'll find yourself if you stay inside and just kind of grind and move slowly when you're in her, you're giving her of all the massage with your body.
0:17.2	And that'll make her come.
0:20.8	I'm Amy. I'm April. Certified sex educators,
0:24.7	experts of the year and bestselling authors. And we're on a mission to help you have more
0:30.1	spicy, connected, and amazing shameless sex. Welcome to the shameless sex revolution.
0:36.3	We're so close. It's like we have our own language. We're so close.
0:37.5	We're making sex and relationships shameless.
0:42.7	To learn more, go to shamelesssex.com.
0:45.5	And for 15% off some of our favorite sex toys, use code shameless sex at pure pleasure shop.com.
0:52.9	You were listening to a pleasure podcast.
0:55.9	For more from our sex podcast collective, visit pleasurepodcasts.com.
1:01.3	Well, hello everyone.
1:02.9	Hi, everybody.
1:04.1	Welcome back to the shameless sex podcast.
1:06.5	This episode is about riding in that day, ride in that day, uh, ride them cowgirl, uh, how to ride.
1:13.6	Ride it, ride them. Right. Right them. Just ride them. Which is perfect for early July. Yeah.
1:18.1	Why is that? I don't know. I just decided that. I think you're right. Yeah. Why not? Why not ride a
1:25.5	firework into the sky. Ooh, yeah.
1:28.8	Actually, maybe you want to.
1:31.1	This is Dr. Sadie Ellison, who has been on our show multiple times, many times.
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