437: CEO Mama: Healing Generational Patterns, Reparenting + How Our Kids Impact Our Inner Work

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Natalie Ellis

Education, Entrepreneurship, Marketing, Business, Self-improvement

4.9 • 2.3K Ratings

🗓️ 23 November 2024

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Lindsay introduces the topic of reparenting—a powerful piece of motherhood for ambitious moms to be aware of. Inspired by a conversation between Natalie Ellis and Nakea Homer, Lindsay reflects on how childhood patterns like people-pleasing and overachieving show up in our parenting, relationships, and even our businesses. If you’re feeling like you’re on the verge of burn out or are misaligned doing the juggle of business and motherhood, this episode will help you explore how reparenting your inner child can transform your approach to motherhood and business. Lindsay also shares her personal journey and simple ways to get started with this inner work. What we cover: Nakea’s daughter’s surprising advice on selflessness. How inner child patterns can lead to burnout in business and motherhood. Simple tips for starting your own reparenting practice. TIMESTAMPS 00:44 – The pivotal question Nakea asked her daughter and the surprising answer 01:41 – How ambitious mothers often approach parenting like business goals 02:34 – The wake-up call: Are we self-abandoning in our efforts to “do it all”? 03:03 – What is reparenting, and why it is crucial for ambitious mothers 04:30 – Childhood patterns that impact business and personal relationships 06:08 – Burnout in business: Is it the business—or inner child wounds? 08:46 – Lindsay’s personal story of achieving for validation in childhood 10:42 – How to begin reparenting: Gentle steps to guide your inner child 12:53 – Why this work is foundational to success as an ambitious mama 16:26 – Closing thoughts: Inner work transforms every layer of your life 17:17 – CEO Mama Membership announcement RESOURCES + LINKS Fill out the CEO Mama Membership founding member application here. Listen to the full episode with Nakeia Homer here. Black Friday at Bossbabe is coming! Join the Waitlist Here to be the First to Know What Our Secret Offer is. Learn Natalie’s Proven Method for Building a Profitable, Predictable, Freedom-Based Business and Get Back to WHY you Became an Entrepreneur in this FREE 90-Minute Training. Join The Société: Our Exclusive Membership Where You Can Access All of Natalie’s Keynotes & Unlock The Best Systems + Tools To Help You Build A Freedom-Based Business. Get Our Weekly Newsletter & Get Insights From Natalie Every Single Week On All Things Strategy, Motherhood, Business Growth + More. Drop Us A Review On The Podcast + Send Us A Screenshot & We’ll Send You Natalie’s 7-Figure Operating System Completely FREE (value $1,997) FOLLOW bossbabe: @bossbabe.inc Natalie Ellis: @iamnatalie

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0:00.0	Hello, welcome back to the show. This is Lindsay, and this is a CEO Mama episode.
0:17.6	This one is a reflection that I wanted to record on a recent episode on the podcast
0:22.9	with Natalie and Nicaa Homer. And if you haven't listened to this episode, I highly encourage you to
0:27.7	listen to the episode with Natalie and Nakea because it was so beautiful and it covered such a
0:32.6	wide range of topics. But one of the things that they talked about that I thought warranted a deeper
0:37.1	conversation specifically for CEO Mama was around this conversation that NACA, but one of the things that they talked about that I thought warranted a deeper conversation
0:37.7	specifically for CEO Mama was around this conversation that Nakea mentions that she had with
0:43.0	her daughter. If you haven't listened, I really highly encourage you to pause me and go back
0:47.4	and listen because I'm going to spoil a little bit of the episode for you. But Nakea mentions that
0:51.1	she asked her daughter this question and was expecting it a totally different
0:54.7	answer. And her daughter reflected back to her something that really surprised her. It was just such a
0:59.5	beautiful moment in the episode and a beautiful moment for me listening to be like, wow, this is such
1:05.1	a incredible reflection. And so what she had done was she asked her daughter, her 12 year old daughter,
1:09.5	she said, what can I do better as a mom? What do you think I could do better? If you're listening to the episode with
1:14.1	Nakea, you'll hear the context around this conversation, around people pleasing and trying to
1:19.5	really stop generational trauma by doing things differently with your kids than we're done with you.
1:24.5	And I think a lot of us inter- parenthood and a lot of us come to our
1:28.1	parenthood these days, especially moms, you know, we're so cognizant of how we're showing up in
1:32.8	parenthood because we're high achievers. You know, we study it. We're aware. We want to be good
1:36.3	parents. We want to do things differently. Like it's something we want to achieve almost, you know.
1:40.9	And so I think we approach parenting the same way we approach our business
1:45.2	or our other goals where it's like, this is something I want to do well and I'm going to work at
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