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Episode 433: Navigating PTSD Triggers & Overcoming Shame
In this episode of The Hardcore Self Help Podcast, I tackle two listener questions related to PTSD, trauma, and the emotional challenges that come with them. The first question is from someone who is deeply affected by their environment, living in a house that serves as a constant PTSD trigger. They want to move forward but feel completely stuck. The second question is about dealing with strong emotional reactions in public and the embarrassment that follows. I offer compassionate, practical advice to help both listeners begin taking steps toward healing and self-acceptance.
What We Cover in This Episode:
Understanding why trauma responses persist and how they impact daily life
The role of avoidance in PTSD and how to begin addressing it
Practical strategies for tackling overwhelming life changes
How to communicate with a therapist about deeply buried trauma
The importance of seeking trauma-informed therapy and possible medication options
Exposure techniques for gradually confronting PTSD triggers
Journaling as a tool for processing trauma at your own pace
Overcoming embarrassment when experiencing emotional reactions in public
Using gratitude as a way to shift focus from shame to connection
Coping strategies to regulate emotions and build resilience
Timestamps:
00:00 β Introduction & request for listener questions
02:00 β Listener question: Living in a house that triggers PTSD
05:00 β Why trauma responses persist and the role of avoidance
10:00 β Communicating openly with a therapist about severe trauma
12:00 β Seeking trauma-informed therapy and medication considerations
16:00 β Making an actionable plan to move forward and sell the house
21:00 β Practical steps to start addressing home repairs and tasks
22:00 β Listener question: Managing PTSD emotional reactions in public
24:00 β Using gratitude to counter feelings of shame and embarrassment
27:00 β Grounding techniques and exposure exercises to build resilience
30:00 β The importance of seeking support from others
32:00 β Closing thoughts & listener engagement request
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Website: https://www.duffthepsych.com
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0:00.0 | our bodies bring up traumatic memories in a way that feels like it's happening all over again. |
0:06.2 | So you have a hard time recognizing that when that cue happens and the memory is pulled up, |
0:11.0 | that you're actually safe. You're not going through it again. Your body doesn't really |
0:14.8 | discriminate that well. A lot of people have a hard time really being fully honest with their therapist, |
0:20.4 | because sometimes you just want to do a good job. You want to, you know, show that you're trying hard. |
0:25.6 | I think that there's often a fear of opening the floodgates, and suddenly you're more of a wreck than you were before, |
0:31.6 | because you just can't pull things back together and you're completely unraveled. |
0:34.6 | The process of doing this is also again going to serve as an |
0:38.1 | exposure exercise so that you're not running from your anxiety and you're going to start building |
0:42.9 | self-efficacy that you can see yourself as somebody who gets stuff done even in the context of a |
0:49.1 | place that makes you feel a lot of mixed feelings. That's a lot. And you're not doing anything wrong by struggling. |
0:55.9 | It's so much. And I'm sorry that you have to be in the situation. I think anybody would be |
1:01.0 | in a tough spot if they were in your shoes. All right. Hello, friends. This is the hardcore self-help podcast. I'm your host, Dr. Robert Duff. |
1:16.4 | And today I have a question and answer episode. Two really good questions. They both have a bit to |
1:22.4 | do with trauma. In the first one, I do mention something about a sexual assault. |
1:28.2 | There's nothing graphic. |
1:29.6 | There's no descriptions, but the topic does come up. |
1:31.8 | So I just want to make you aware of that. |
1:33.6 | But two really great questions. |
1:35.2 | I also would like to ask you for questions. |
1:37.9 | I've put up the call recently, and there's been a little trickle of questions, but I |
1:41.5 | could really use more. |
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