I'm so grateful to have you here. This is an amazing first episode to listen to and you may be listening to it because you've heard the guest Lili Sing.

So she is a hilarious fierce first generation queen who really has won our hearts and our laughter over from her decade plus of creating hilarious YouTube content.

That's how I first discovered her and she shares for the first time ever really her journey of feeling lost despite the success feeling burnt out feeling like she need to get to the next thing and the next thing.

The issues with her family, the intergenerational trauma that is often passed down until we become aware of it and how she was able to build this framework around being a triangle that she'll share in today's episode to get your life back into shape.

So this is such an amazing conversation whether your parents or your family are immigrants. We really share about how we both have that in common and how sometimes there can be a lot of pressure to be successful or a hard time understanding your family or shame around going to therapy and healing and how to really overcome that and have compassion for your family.

This is also a really great conversation if you're someone that wants to be a content creator. So Lili not only created her YouTube channel but has gone on to have her own late night show.

A little late night with Lili Sing, her own scripted show that she's on called it dollface, which is hilarious and so much more so she has been able to really create a life for herself in her entertainer archetype really rocking it.

But then also just for someone who feels maybe a little bit overwhelmed with lots of plates spinning and things going on in your life and it feels like everything is so important that you just don't know how to chill how to have fun and we really share about that in this episode our addictions with social media especially when we're on a social world and her career was built off the social media as was mine. How do we find balance in that.

So there's just so much realness in this conversation to what I really love about Lily is yeah she keeps it really grounded and doesn't give you some fluff advice and tells it to you as it was that it was a lot of hard work for her and I ask her what she would have done otherwise if she knew what she knew today and the answer might surprise you.

So wherever you are in your life in your career, I think all of us can relate to being a little bit thrown off track with COVID and everything else that has been happening in the world and this is really a time to get your foundation in place so we can bridge and co create with our highest selves.

So with that, let us welcome Lili Sing to the highest self podcast.

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Welcome, Lili to the highest self podcast. It's so great to have you here. I'm excited to be here. Thank you for having me.

And the first question I'd love to ask you is what makes you your highest self?

Oh, hitting me with the hardening questions right off the bat. I think this answer is definitely evolved over my life.

Right now, what is making me my highest self is really understanding and behaving in a way that knows that myself is already complete without all the accolades and all the external validation that is out there.

You know, my self right now is knowing that all of this cool stuff I get to do writing books and having a job and having relationships and going places are cool and awesome experiences, but they're not my definition and they are not what make me my higher self my higher self.

I'm already complete human being and all the stuff is extra. So that's what's making me my highest self right now.

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