Jealousy is described differently based on the expectations and norms that people have,

their norms and beliefs, that is often based on what their relationship structure is, right?

Also, we use different strategies and that's what my data is showing is that

there are different strategies employed when jealousy

shows up and that's where there is so much generative potential for people to

learn from people in different relationship structures. People I think expect me to say that it will always be non-monogamous people.

We got to always learn from them.

But in fact, what I'm finding is that many monogamous people have put in a lot of clear boundaries and have allowed themselves decide to be in what I would say smaller or simpler containers in part because they know that that's the best choice for their nervous

system at the phase that they're in.

Certainly we could all learn from that, right?

And so it's about how they deal with it, what they do with it.

And there are other differences, but that's the primary one.

That there is something for all sides to learn from each other.

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On this episode of the Multiamari Podcast, we're talking about jealousy research with Dr. Jolie

Hamilton. Dr. Jolie Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines. She's a research

psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and ASECT certified sex

educator. Jolie also co-hosts the Playing With Fire Podcast with her anchor partner Ken.

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