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Delight Your Marriage

428- 30 Years Disconnected in Marriage, Now Deeply Connected: Adam's Transformation Story

Delight Your Marriage

Belah Rose

Sexuality, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.7589 Ratings

🗓️ 25 April 2024

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

We all know that marriage is a blessing from God. And when a marriage spans decades - ten, twenty, thirty years- we often stand in awe and amazement at that accomplishment.

 

However, there are times when those thirty years privately have been disconnected and painful and becoming empty nesters resulted in feeling like even less than roommates.

 

But, what if they found a program that changed it all and brought a deeper peace, connection, and unity to their marriage than they've had in three decades?

 

That is Adam's Transformation Story. From being disconnected and treating her almost as he did one of his "employees" to learning what it truly means to be "safe" for his wife. So connected in fact that they are planning a getaway for their 30th anniversary! When just a few short months ago she felt there was nothing to celebrate!

 

We are thrilled to share this transformation story with you because it's a miracle that we give God all glory and honor for what He did in their family. 

 

If any part of it resonates–the disconnect, the want for a change in heart, the desire for results like this one (planning a trip, deeper intimacy, deeper connection)–we encourage you to make a Clarity Call at www.delightyourmarriage.com/cc

 

We hope this story encourages you, reminds you that God is for you, and that it is truly, truly, never too late to turn and create a new beginning in your marriage.

 

Love,

 

Belah 


PS - If you have been on the fence about deciding to go through a program we invite you to join in now, because in 2 weeks the pricing model and structure will change as we're having to cap enrollment. 

I hope you can jump in now as we'll be raising the price in two weeks. 

Check out delightyourmarriage.com/cc to learn more!

 

PPS - Here is a quote from a recent graduate:

 

Before MR: "Lack of connection, lack of intimacy on each Spiritual, Emotional or Physical. I knew that our physical intimacy was lacking, My wife and I were friendly 'roommates', Physical intimacy was infrequent (3-5x a year) and not passionate. I knew I wanted and needed more, but I wasn't able to identify the lacking Spiritual and Emotional intimacy. I described myself as Helpless but not Hopeless because I had hope but didn't know exactly what was missing and what to do about it…."

After MR: "(The) DYM MR program has drawn me closer to God, my wife, and my daughters. I have seen wonderful growth in my closeness with my wife and we've spent more time truly together in the last couple months than in prior years. We've gone from polite roommates where I had been jealous of my wife's craving of Diet Coke more than she seemed to need or crave me in her life to teenagers who do fun silly things to express our love for one another... My spiritual connections with God and my wife have improved 100 fold!... My wife and I are on an adventure to read the bible within the next year. We're also cooking together 3 nights per week…"


Does your marriage currently feel like living with a roommate? We want to help bring the spark back! Visit delightyourmarriage.com/cc to schedule a free Clarity Call with us. We would love to talk to you!

 

 

Transcript

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We were very disconnected, maybe almost exhausted with each other a little bit, I think.

0:06.0

We had recently become empty nesters, so we're kind of staring at each other in a quiet house.

0:11.0

And, you know, it was sort of a, being empty nesters was a bigger deal than I had thought.

0:18.0

I thought it would just be, you know, I didn't think, I think

0:21.5

it'd be no big deal. And now we're kind of focusing more on each other, I guess. So,

0:27.2

anyway, it was very dry. We were not, we were roommates effectively, I would say. And,

0:33.1

oh, just, you know, everything seemed harder than it should be.

0:42.3

Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast.

0:45.6

You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy.

0:51.8

Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all

0:56.2

about. Delight your marriage. Hi there, I'm Bella Rose, and I'm so grateful to have you. I'm a

1:08.0

marriage trainer, coach, author. I'm just so thrilled to have you here

1:13.1

with me. And today's conversation is such an encouragement. If you've been in this journey

1:21.1

called marriage for more than a couple years, decades, and maybe you've been suffering for

1:26.9

decades, Adam gets it. He absolutely

1:30.9

gets it. There's been disconnection and really just a sense of almost exhaustion with each other.

1:37.5

So I don't know if that's where you are. Maybe you've successfully raised your children. Now you're

1:42.2

empty nesters and you're looking across the table

1:45.2

at somebody that you don't really like. And you're like, what does this look like to continue

1:51.7

these next years, these next decades, with somebody who we can't seem to enjoy each other?

1:59.2

Maybe there was a season where you did, but at this point, it just feels hopeless.

2:04.7

Well, if you're a husband listening, I just want you to really take some notes from Adam's perspective

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