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423: How Do I Set Boundaries That Stick? With Jules Taylor Shore

Therapy Chat

Laura Reagan, LCSW-C

Social Sciences, Science, Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.4728 Ratings

🗓️ 8 March 2024

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Welcome back to Therapy Chat! If you've ever thought, "I know I need to set a boundary, but I don't know how to do it," or "I know what I should do/say, but why can't I seem to make myself do it?" then you'll love this episode. This week's guest, Juliane Taylor Shore, wrote the book, "Setting Boundaries That Stick: How Neurobiology Can Help You Rewire Your Brain to Help You Feel Safe, Connected and Empowered," which addresses the challenge of setting boundaries, which so many of us find confusing these days. In our conversation you'll hear Jules explain what the different types of boundaries are, how to set them and what's needed to make them stick. Jules is one of the speakers at this year's Psychotherapy Networker! Are you going? Save $50 using the link in the Show Notes!

Juliane Taylor Shore, LMFT, LPC, SEP, is a therapist, author, and teacher who is creating spaces where people can move into more self-compassion, self-trust, empowerment, and integrity. She regularly teaches and speaks to people from all around the world and translates new understandings in neurobiology into practices that can support brain change. She came into the therapy world as a client who argued that feelings didn’t matter only to find herself all these years later having followed neuroscience to the obvious conclusion: we are really feeling and meaning making beings driven by our interdependence. She believes that embracing that reality is key to finding purpose and deep joy. She is the author of Setting Boundaries that Stick: How Neurobiology Can Help You Rewire Your Brain to Feel Safe, Connected and Empowered. She is an associate Instructor with the Coherence Institute and a core faculty member with Therapy Wisdom and Jules co-hosts Why Does My Partner...? Podcast with Rebecca Wong and Vickey Easa.

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423. This is the Therapy Chat podcast episode 423.

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This is the Therapy Chat podcast with Laura Reagan, LCSWC.

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The information shared in this podcast is not a substitute for seeking help from a licensed mental health professional.

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And now, here's your host, Laura Reagan, LCSWC. Hi, welcome back to therapy chat.

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I'm your host, Laura Reagan. And today I am so thrilled to be bringing you a conversation with a guest who was first on therapy chat last year, just around this time in episode 375. My guest today for our second

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therapy chat interview is Julianne Taylor Shore. Julianne Taylor Shore, LMFT, LPC, SEP, also known as

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