Also, sometimes a boundary is a way for you to keep yourself from your own bad habits or your own harmful patterns that you've fallen into.

So sometimes it is necessary to put systems in place

that help stop yourself from continuing down a path

that isn't serving you.

This could be something like, you know, I keep getting in these

situations where I'm being treated in a certain way or I'm allowing myself to take on

a lot of responsibilities that really shouldn't be mine or something like that.

Like and you've noticed that this is a pattern for yourself.

Having that boundary helps you to kind of see this, okay, something's hit this boundary point. I need to now stop this and,

you know, step in and do what I've planned to do to enforce this boundary to protect myself from that. Sometimes the that is yourself, right? It's just

yourself letting yourself be in those situations that are not healthy for you.

Welcome to the multi-amory podcast. I'm Jace.

I'm Emily.

And I'm Dedicher.

We believe in looking to the future of relationships,

not maintaining the status quo of the past.

Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships

differently, we see you and we're here for you. On this episode of the multi-ammery. We are so excited because today is finally the day that

our book has come out. Wow, it is May 23rd and our book is officially alive and released into the world.

Just watch out, it's coming for you.

You better watch out.

So you can see I'm Kooky because we've finally had the book go out. Because this has been a three year project and it's ridiculous and we're so glad to be coming to the end of it.

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