422-Compassion Fatigue. Interview with Kevin Bueltmann
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 15 March 2024
⏱️ 51 minutes
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Summary
If you're a pastor or are shepherded by a pastor, it is important to know that the work of the pastor is hard and can have a deep impact on the leader of such work.
In this episode, we explore the emotional and psychological cost of deeply caring for others.
In today's episode, we delve into compassion fatigue, its causes, and the impact it has on individuals in helping professions.
Here's what you'll learn:
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What is compassion fatigue and how does it differ from burnout?
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Professions most susceptible to compassion fatigue.
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Warning signs and symptoms to watch out for.
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Strategies for managing and preventing compassion fatigue.
I'm excited to speak with Kevin Bueltmann, a pastor who helps pastors with Compassion Fatigue. He went through it himself.
I encourage you to find out more about him and his ministry for pastors at https://www.shepherdscanyonretreat.org/
If you are wondering if you are burnt out and/or have compassion fatigue, we have a great conversation with practical ideas. I believe this will bless you!
Blessings,
Belah
PS - If we can help you with your marriage, go to delightyourmarriage.com/cc to learn all the details.
Graduate Quote:
Before the program… "I felt that I was not connecting as well with my wife and children as I should. I could sense my wife's frustration with me…I was tired, I was grouchy, I was irritable and it was affecting my most important relationships. It was negatively impacting them and my relationships with them, and it needed to change."
After the program… "My overwhelming feeling coming out of this course is gratitude - gratitude for my wife, for who she is, for how she has hung in there with me and not given up on me, for how she has continued to love me for who I am. I am grateful for this course and the blind spots it has helped me recognize. I wasn't a good listener at all. I was grouchy. I was ungrateful. I was often guilty of having a transactional mindset when it came to sexual intimacy. All that has changed for the better. It's all about the routine, and doing things [taught in the program] each day."
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy. |
| 0:11.6 | Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. Delight your |
| 0:17.9 | marriage. Hi there. This is Bella Rose, and I am so grateful that you are joining us. |
| 0:24.8 | So today's episode, we have got some really good practical ideas on how to deal with compassion |
| 0:34.2 | fatigue. So if this is a new concept for you, if maybe you've been a Jesus |
| 0:39.3 | follower for a long time, or you're an actual ministry leader, or maybe you're new to the |
| 0:44.6 | Christian life, and you're like, go, go, go, go, let's do all these things for Jesus. The Bible |
| 0:50.4 | is full of really good things for us to accomplish, and that's awesome. |
| 0:55.5 | And so the thing that I think sometimes happens with pastors specifically and ministry leaders |
| 1:00.9 | specifically is they have such a full life of serving and loving, and they don't necessarily |
| 1:07.2 | realize how to create a lifestyle outside of ministry that will support the work |
| 1:16.3 | and the calling God is placed on their life and the things he wants them to do. |
| 1:21.0 | They don't have a lifestyle that supports it for a long-term sustainable serving. |
| 1:28.7 | And they get burnt out and they get compassion fatigue. |
| 1:31.5 | And Kevin Biltman is actually coming on the podcast today, specifically to talk about this issue. |
| 1:39.2 | And he has specific advice for you and me, maybe somebody who's not a pastor themselves, but also |
| 1:45.1 | specifically for pastors. And he has specific therapeutic resources that I'm excited to bring you |
| 1:51.2 | because there's no question that our church needs leaders that are going to walk in integrity. |
| 1:59.6 | They're going to be able to be in the quiet, in the private. |
| 2:03.5 | They look the same in the public. |
| 2:05.8 | And if you've been around, you know that that's not always the case. |
| 2:12.1 | And it harms the body of Christ. |
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