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The Jordan Harbinger Show

42: Linda Carroll | What to Do When Good Chemistry Goes Bad

The Jordan Harbinger Show

Jordan Harbinger

Education, Science, Business

4.812.3K Ratings

🗓️ 14 May 2018

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

Linda Carroll (@Lovecycleslinda) is a licensed marriage and family therapist, relationship sage, and author of Love Cycles: The Five Essential Stages of Lasting Love.

What We Discuss with Linda Carroll:
  • What to do when good chemistry goes bad.
  • Why falling in love with "forbidden" people feels so exciting -- even when we know it's wrong.
  • What to do when we find ourselves Facebook-stalking old flames and fantasizing about rekindling relationships probably best left in the past.
  • What happens to an otherwise good relationship under constant attack by misfiring fight or flight chemicals (and how to get back on target).
  • How to get over the end of a devastating relationship and on with your life.
  • And much more...

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Falling in love with forbidden people takes us into a whole arena that actually is very erotic.

1:40.0

Erotic is the forbidden arena in so many different ways. So I think again, it's being able to know that it may feel like it is amplifying my feelings that I should be with that person.

1:52.0

But it's amplifying the chemicals that say I can't have that. Therefore, I want it all the more.

1:59.0

Welcome to the show. I'm Jordan Harbinger. As always, I'm here with my producer Jason DeFilippo.

2:05.0

On this episode, we're talking with our good friend Linda Carroll. She is a riot.

2:11.0

Linda is a licensed marriage and family therapist. She's been working as a psychotherapist, teacher, coach for 35 years.

2:17.0

She's the author of Love Cycles. She's been on the show before. You know who she is. And if you're new to the show, you're in for a treat.

2:24.0

She's just so sharp, so fun. Love having these shows with her today. We're talking about what to do when good chemistry goes bad, falling in love with an incompatible person, falling in love with an inappropriate person, falling in love with a fantasy person like your old girlfriend or your old boyfriend that you haven't seen for two decades, but you're having those feelings are worse.

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