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Coaching for Leaders

42: How to Gain Insight Into Personality, with Bonni Stachowiak

Coaching for Leaders

Dave Stachowiak

Management, Careers, Business

4.81.6K Ratings

🗓️ 18 June 2012

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

Bonni Stachowiak: Teaching in Higher Ed

Bonni is the host of the Teaching in Higher Ed podcast, Dean of Teaching and Learning and Professor of Business and Management at Vanguard University, and my life partner. Prior to her academic career, she was a human resources consultant and executive officer for a publicly traded company. Bonni is the author of The Productive Online and Offline Professor: A Practical Guide*.

Every leader will ultimately engage and develop people who have different personality preferences than they do. Too often, we lead others they way we would like to be led. In this episode, Bonni & Dave Stachowiak introduce the personality series and discuss ways that leaders can gain insight into the personalities of themselves and others.

Bonni and Dave both mentioned the book, Please Understand Me II by David Keirsey

Get clear on your own personality first

  • Journaling
  • Books
  • Space for quiet/thinking
  • Coaching
  • Feedback from others and development reports
  • Assessments

We tend to lead people the way that we like to be led – but often that’s not the other party’s preference.

Personality isn’t about good and bad or putting people into boxes – it’s about preference

There are a few models: Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) and DiSC are the most popular

  • They are both widely accepted models
  • They both have fans and critics
  • Neither one is perfect
  • MBTI a bit easier to understand quickly – has a stronger network of control
  • DiSC – less black and white – but very insightful

Things for leaders to be cautious of:

  • Assessments are wrong – MBTI only gets all four correct 65%-80% of the time
  • Beware people that tell you that assessments are the end all and be all of hiring and leading people (or that their assessment is perfect)
  • Personality isn’t about good and bad or putting people into boxes – it’s about preference
  • Any strength overused becomes a liability
  • If you have someone come in to work with your team, have someone who is well trained, experienced, and just uses assessments as one data point

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Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to coaching for leaders. This is episode number 42 airing on June 18th, 2012.

0:07.0

Produced by Innovate Learning, Maximizing human potential.

0:19.0

Welcome to coaching for leaders. This is the show for leaders who want to improve themselves

0:22.0

so they can better engage and develop others.

0:25.6

Whether you're a seasoned leader or leading people for the first time, improving your leadership

0:30.0

skills will drive your success, and most most importantly the success of others.

0:35.3

This week's topic how to gain insight into personality.

0:39.6

Well hello everyone and welcome to another episode of Coaching for Leaders.

0:46.4

My name is Dave Stahoviac, and I am coming to you from our studio out here in Orange County, California and I am thrilled to announce the start of a new

0:56.0

series here on coaching for leaders in looking at understanding different personality

1:01.7

types and how to lead people who have different personality types, which of course if you're a leader you are absolutely leading people who have different personality types than you do.

1:13.2

And it's a very common obstacle for many of us as leaders to learn how to work and lead people

1:18.8

who are different than ourselves.

1:20.4

And so, as a result this summer, at least summer here in in the states I know those of you in the southern hemisphere it's winter time so this winter for those of you down there

1:28.7

We're going to be looking at

1:30.7

Personality and spending it actually the the next probably five six seven episodes on personality

1:36.7

and looking into it in detail and I'm so excited to welcome my favorite guest slash semi- co-host here and that is my wife Bonnie Stahoviac.

1:46.6

Welcome back to Coaching for Leaders.

1:48.4

Thank you for having me back. I'm excited to be here on the beginning of a series that I think is really important

1:54.5

and is going to cause me to reflect a lot as the coming weeks are upon us and

2:00.7

just thanks for inviting me to this this podcast. I am glad to have you back and

2:05.4

the exact same thing has happened for me in fact I've been thinking a bunch about

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