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Hi, I'm Abby.

And I'm Vanessa, and you're listening to the Real Moms of Bravo,

where we recap your favorite Bravo shows in 30-ish minutes every week.

And we are coming at you again.

I feel like we've been a little off schedule lately,

but life happens.

I had my youngest son's first birthday party this weekend and it's so

fun. It was I I love it. I love leading up to it. I'm one of those people that

like oddly enjoys cooking appetizers. I'm not like a big meal

person but like apps is where I shine. So I love these types of parties. It was so fun but if you saw my meme I literally felt like I got hit by a truck on Sunday. I was so tired.

I believe it. Kit parties are not fun. There's a reason why alcohol is served at night parties.

And little like... There's a reason why alcohol is served at parties.

And little, like, I will say, it's a lot easier

to enjoy your kids' first birthday party

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