42. Consent Is Actually Sexy
Sensual Self with Ev'Yan Whitney
Ev'Yan Whitney, Sexuality Doula®
4.7 • 758 Ratings
🗓️ 12 June 2019
⏱️ 51 minutes
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Summary
*Note: This episode was done during the era when this podcast used to be called The Sexually Liberated Woman.
Ev’Yan sits down with Jaclyn Friedman, author of Yes Means Yes, to talk all about consent. They explore affirmative consent as a moral philosophy, what it looks like to communicate honestly with sexual partners about what you want, and how to make consent talk sexy.
Other things discussed: The difference between enthusiastic consent and affirmative consent; how to bring sexiness and playfulness to boundary setting; and what affirmative consent looks like in practice.
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Music: Otis MacDonald and Comfort Fit
Editing help: Samantha Ridell
Cover photo: Celeste Noche
Design: Bianca Ng
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